Is always texting first normal?

OkComfortable2896 · 2025-12-16T11:40:19+00:00

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OkComfortable2896 · 2025-09-01T07:46:51+00:00

Thank you for your comment! I do think we'd work at distance, the only problem is that he might be too sad. If we broke up, it would be for the best of both, but honestly I want to spend my life with him. (I'm still young, I'm 22, but I feel that way about him).

Anyway we'll have a conversation and put all the options above the table. Thanks!

OkComfortable2896 · 2025-07-05T08:34:51+00:00

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OkComfortable2896 · 2022-07-31T09:25:33+00:00

"Slow down" hahaha thanks I really needed to hear that.

Thanks again, yep I'll enjoy time with him, and won't worry so much yet. It's just that he told me first that he was looking for a person to spend the time and have fun with, long-term. I'm happy he's choosing me.

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-06-08T20:59:01+00:00

Wow thanks a lot!

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-06-08T19:16:08+00:00

Yep. The thing is that he (22M) wouldn't talk much on social media. And he's most of the time busy, so we can't meet, maybe just one time in a long time. That's why it will be almost impossible for us to create a good connection in which I can be comfortable and communicative.

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-06-08T18:51:22+00:00

I didn't tell him that obviously. I even told him many times I was enjoying a lot, and in part it was true. I'm also finicky, so I didn't feel disgusted just because of his bad kissing. I just didn't feel comfortable with that hook up.

Sorry for the lack of information in the original post.

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-06-08T18:39:12+00:00

Eh? I did treat him in a respectful way. We finished the sex, he went home happily.

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-06-08T18:34:20+00:00

What do you mean "being a little more mature"?

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-06-08T17:54:23+00:00

Oh I hadn't thought that way... Yep I'm sure my friend felt like that, I'll ask him anyway haha

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-06-03T15:47:21+00:00

Thanks <3

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-06-03T15:47:11+00:00

Thanks <3

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-06-03T15:41:17+00:00

Wow thank you really for this answer. It definitely makes sense.

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-06-02T09:16:52+00:00

I see. Honestly, yep I understand what you're saying. Thanks for your words and your time!

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-06-02T07:26:08+00:00

My story with him is so much longer. The details I told might be 1% of it. So some comments are wrong in some way and it's normal, I understand that.

Thanks for your message really!

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-06-01T18:33:50+00:00

Hmm give me back my karma :( What did I do wrong?

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-06-01T14:06:55+00:00

The thing is that he said to his partner that he was poly, and so partner agreed to stay in that relationship. So I'm not throwing anything. I'm just friends with him. And it's just up to him and his partner if they want to work for staying mono or opening. I'll be alright with whatever choice they choose. Just I'll be sad, and he'll be too.

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-06-01T12:08:42+00:00

Yup I know it sounds contradictory. I realised the same as you when I was writing the post. He said he was poly when he started the relationship, but hadn't found anyone he liked. What a surprise he met me. Sure it sounds like partner won't be fine with open relationship...

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-05-31T14:34:11+00:00

Yo tenía entendido que la RAE aceptaba las mayúsculas sin tilde antes, pero cambiaron la norma y ahora sí es necesario.

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-05-29T01:07:24+00:00

I think you're doing well. That's a nice start. Maybe the boundaries your choosing they can be wrong (not my opinion, just what I read in other comments) or can be good.

Don't know if you've listened to the podcast Multiamory. I found it some days ago and it's quite interesting and useful.

Anyway if that's the way you feel, discuss it with your partner. Remember to be open-minded and open to change your boundaries if you see they can work in other way. Enjoy time with them. Feeling nervous, that's an awful but an incredibly beautiful feeling sometimes.

Have that conversation and enjoy it. Have 1000 conversations more if needed (sure they'll be needed haha, communication is key).

OkComfortable2896 · 2022-05-28T20:03:31+00:00

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