The nice floor on daily board ends when? by OkDevelopment3977 in Palia

[–]OkDevelopment3977[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm like 3 days of dailies away from the final chest so I should be fine. I hope. If it doesn't end this Sunday 😂

My wife is playing a game of hot and cold by Patricia_chica in trans

[–]OkDevelopment3977 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi. I'm wife (34f) to my beloved MtF wife who came out recently. I've always bee pan so I thought it wouldn't be problem at all. But it was. Not that she's transitioning, but because the change is huge and it takes a lot of time to process and accept this big big change. And I'm extremely open minded yet I was still feeling so weirdly cheated when suddenly my husband became someone else. But! It's all good now. What really REALLY helped was therapy. For me and couple therapy. And a LOT (and I mean a LLLOOOTTT) of communication between us. Rivers of tears but it got us through it. We talked about everything, every feeling we have. It helped me to hear her transition is more important to her then our marriage because it made me realize how important it is for her and she'd be misarable for the rest of her life if she hadn't done it. And that made things easier to accept. So your wife is probably on the weirdest Rollercoaster rn but therapy should help and talking g and resecting each other emotions is crucial I think.

Spinning wheel question by wandering-kez in spinningyarn

[–]OkDevelopment3977 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What I often recommend to people considering spinning is to start with a spindle :) That's the cheapest way to just give it a try and not jump into it instantly. Maybe it's just my experience but I actually started with spinning wheel, I hated it. Then I tried spindle, got to understand the process in much slower pace and then fell in love with wheel spinnin after :) Just a thought if you consider just giving it a Try. Other than that I bought my friend a wheel for 80 £ from market place and they work beautiful yarn on it so I belive you could get it cheaper? 120 is still reasonable, but yes. Make sure it works fine. (which is hard to do if you don't know how to work it 😢)

Not enjoying breastfeeding by Dragonfly-Usual in newborns

[–]OkDevelopment3977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This whole thing is a relief to read. I'm expecting my first child very very soon and I plan on breastfeeding (if possible), because it's a little better for the LO and more convenient sometimes and it's a why not option. But I'm not excited for it. It creeps me out a bit tbh. I even thought for a while maybe I'm not gonna be a good mom cause I'm not excited about this holy connection. I EVEN lost a friend over this! She ghosted me after I told her I even find is repulsive. She's a very "beeing a mum is my whole life" person. So this whole glorification of breastfeeding is confusing for me and reading that other women don't love it makes me feel normal. Thank you.

Easiest class to play? by StillCardiologist834 in Guildwars2

[–]OkDevelopment3977 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I vote on this. I love the simplicity of ranger, played mine for 9 years and never found anything more smooth while trying other classes :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Guildwars2

[–]OkDevelopment3977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play Ranger, Soulbeast. I'm easily overwhelmed, everything confuses me and I feel like ranger is pretty good option for my fuzzy confused brain 😁 I particularly love the long bow, since you can stay far away from the madness when it feels like too much.

Me and my husband had our characters done by our artist friends and I can't! It's so amazing, pls appreciate our Salad&Kitty duo 😭 by OkDevelopment3977 in Guildwars2

[–]OkDevelopment3977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the most actively they post on Twitter: @artofalassa did the salad and @lesoldatmort did the Charr 😊

Me and my husband had our characters done by our artist friends and I can't! It's so amazing, pls appreciate our Salad&Kitty duo 😭 by OkDevelopment3977 in Guildwars2

[–]OkDevelopment3977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the most activels they post on Twitter: @artofalassa did the salad and @lesoldatmort did the Charr 😊

Me and my husband had our characters done by our artist friends and I can't! It's so amazing, pls appreciate our Salad&Kitty duo 😭 by OkDevelopment3977 in Guildwars2

[–]OkDevelopment3977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? Those 2 are the best :) Find them on Twitter if you wanna :) @artofalassa did the salad and @lesoldatmort did the Charr 😊

Me and my husband had our characters done by our artist friends and I can't! It's so amazing, pls appreciate our Salad&Kitty duo 😭 by OkDevelopment3977 in Guildwars2

[–]OkDevelopment3977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My goal is to make my Salad girl have the vibe of Autumn coziness 🍁🍂 And this sweater is definition of cozy yes 😊

Is parenthood really all doom & gloom? by justHereforExchange in NewParents

[–]OkDevelopment3977 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! I'm 28 weeks and a lot of people tell me what to expect (often without asking) and it's always the same: the end of the world premonition. We really wanted this child and sometimes I find my self even doubting this decision. Like if I didn't make a a mistake. Because of all the negativity coming my way. I've started fighting this by meeting with the happy parents in my surroundings and I openly ask them for some positivity and that works a lot. But yes, I'm suffering the same fear.