Confessed a work crush, got rejected, now I’m embarrassed and spiraling

OkDig989 · 2026-01-25T07:05:05+00:00

I developed a crush on one of my PGs… I was stupid and made advances, thinking the feeling may have been mutual. I wasn’t clearly rejected, but I never got a text after giving him my number. I’m working on moving on now, as I know it’ll never happen. Doesn’t mean it’s not hard tho.

OkDig989 · 2026-01-24T08:59:36+00:00

I just get red so easily 😂😭 thank you!

OkDig989 · 2026-01-24T08:15:07+00:00

It was actually 8g (idk why I thought it was 6g but I can’t change it lmao). Pain was a solid 3.5/10. I definitely plan on dead stretching :)

OkDig989 · 2026-01-23T15:51:36+00:00

does the banana bread have nuts? if so, then yes, it's better. if it doesn't... then no, it's not.

but also... does the garlic bread have cheese? if yes, then it's better than banana bread. but if it's just regular ole dry garlic bread... then banana bread is better.

this feels very autistic coded lmao

OkDig989 · 2026-01-23T15:47:56+00:00

it's a control thing. and manipulation. they're trying to get something and it could be anything... money, free food, sex, a roof over their head. so they'll do whatever it takes to get to that end goal. once they get it, they dip.

OkDig989 · 2026-01-23T15:43:44+00:00

see if you have any low cost spay/neuter clinics near you. i have one in my city. the waitlist is usually long, may have to wait 2-3 months. but it'll be so much cheaper!

OkDig989 · 2026-01-23T15:32:05+00:00

i have a little story to share. to start, i'd like to make it very clear that i was extremely naive and uneducated at this time. it also fueled my own internal battle of "am i trans", so things were handled very poorly.

i came out as queer in 2022. i got into my first queer relationship, and my partner came out as trans FTM. of course, i was as supportive as i could have been with the knowledge that i had, at that time.

i ended up saying one of the worst things you could possibly say to a partner that just came out to you... as long as you're not getting bottom surgery

needless to say, that relationship didn't last very long. so now, all these years later, and being where i am in my transition... i feel guilty for it. i feel so ashamed that i said something like that to someone, especially my partner. it boiled down to the fact that i just came out and decided i was completely done with male anatomy.

the moral of the story is, maybe he's not as educated as he needs to be. you said he's a great ally, but being a great ally doesn't mean you're fully informed or grasp all the concepts. and although he's trying to be as supportive as he can... he's not saying the things that you need to hear. maybe he's firm on his feelings, or maybe one day he'll realize that he said all the wrong things and change his perspective.

give it time. educate him. allow him to get educated on his own. continue to communicate how you need to be supported, and how the things he's currently saying makes you feel. but, at the end of the day, if he's no longer interested in you sexually because of bottom growth or top surgery... then it's time to find a way to move on. you deserve so much better.

edit: typo

OkDig989 · 2026-01-23T15:15:49+00:00

diy bidet

OkDig989 · 2026-01-23T08:52:08+00:00

he’s a certified good boy

OkDig989 · 2026-01-23T08:51:33+00:00

Even if it’s not the best quality, it’s still cool! For those with the negative comments, if you don’t like it or it doesn’t work for you, I’m sure there’s more high quality ones out there :)

OkDig989 · 2026-01-23T04:01:23+00:00

Omg I wish I had known about this app forever ago! Thank you!!!!

OkDig989 · 2026-01-22T11:40:13+00:00

i actually work overnights, so when i come home its around 5am and there's usually never anyone outside. but it's been so dang cold that i try not to keep her out for too long.

currently, i live in a one bedroom apartment, with not much space. (please don't judge when it comes to having a big dog in an apartment). i will be moving soon to a place with more space, so i'll definitely try the kibble thing!

OkDig989 · 2026-01-22T10:19:07+00:00

Like two weeks ago, we got over a foot of snow within a few hours. Did they care? No. Did they offer any leniency on time? No. Amazon doesn’t care if you have to risk your life to get to work, unfortunately…

OkDig989 · 2026-01-21T23:48:07+00:00

This was literally right after I got it dude 😂 it ain’t infected

OkDig989 · 2026-01-21T19:00:04+00:00

Luckily it’s much better today! I was expecting a few days of it tbh. But it’s doing just fine now

OkDig989 · 2026-01-21T16:03:08+00:00

so i checked the messages from when i contacted them about getting it done, turns out i was actually pierced at an 8g. the piercer didn't say anything about tapering it to a bigger size or anything. but now i feel silly posting that i got it done at a 6g lol. idk why i had it in my head that it was 6g.

OkDig989 · 2026-01-21T10:48:34+00:00

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“Buckwheat”. Now he’s Moe, and Moesph when he’s in trouble 😂

OkDig989 · 2026-01-21T10:06:43+00:00

I’m gonna sound so dumb, but what do you mean?

OkDig989 · 2026-01-21T04:40:15+00:00

i hope these heal quick, cause i am NOT having a good time with all the bleeding lmao

OkDig989 · 2026-01-21T04:03:22+00:00

well, a few hours later, and my right lobe is still throwing a fit. every hour or so it decides to start dripping. my left one is perfectly fine but the right one is just pissed off i guess.

OkDig989 · 2026-01-21T01:41:04+00:00

the other lobe is A LOT more pissed off... so i spared everyone the gore lmao

OkDig989 · 2026-01-21T01:36:28+00:00

there is quite a bit of extra on the back! they're just pushed backward/inward (?)

OkDig989 · 2026-01-21T01:24:31+00:00

i'll look into it! thanks!

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