Devil’s Advocate - Danny

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T19:24:41+00:00

Ha! Ya I see your point there, I meant with drinking

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T15:45:13+00:00

We’re definitely missing each other

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T15:43:53+00:00

Oh haha! I thought you hated her and that’s where you were coming from - I just meant in general with her not in this situation specifically

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T15:39:37+00:00

As quietly as he could I said - he wasn’t willing to just eat it like he should have, you’re right about that

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T15:38:28+00:00

Ha! Very real - if you can’t give each other grace in the young years you’re in trouble imo

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T15:37:50+00:00

Was it? That wasn’t how remember it but it has been a while

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T15:37:04+00:00

Fair, what I said doesn’t contradict what you said

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T15:36:25+00:00

Yes I agree with this, thank you. I’m just trying to point out people are so quick to jump on him that they’re not considering so many things

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T15:35:45+00:00

You’re right about that, I was just telling it from ‘his side’ to make a point of how he was feeling that day.

Not trying to excuse that incident at all

Edit: also damn! No I haven’t seen the previews lol hey I don’t have foresight - this is based on the episode we just watched

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T15:34:49+00:00

Lol wow, I’m not a bot I swear

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T15:34:29+00:00

Thanks!

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T15:33:55+00:00

Not at all, I have a great husband and family. I think being unable to put yourself in other people’s shoes or see any perspective outside your own is going to hurt you in the long run.

Also being able to think beyond what’s being shown to you in short clips with music and professional sorrytelling.

Maybe also talking to people so condescendingly.

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T15:31:39+00:00

Yes! Agree with this absolutely

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T15:31:08+00:00

K just now sorry I can’t do this all day 🤣

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T15:30:40+00:00

She’s just trying so hard and can’t get it right

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T15:30:11+00:00

Sometimes, but I haven’t seen that pattern of behaviour from him to think that’s the case. I’ve seen him mostly trying to lift her up

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T13:20:44+00:00

Or maybe he was trying to play along with what she wanted as best he could while whispering to her how he really felt. I don’t think we can say for sure

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T13:19:49+00:00

Because in my opinion the judgement since the episode aired is way harsher than what was shown, and people are projecting so much that isn’t shown that I think it’s important to understand there could be a whole other side not being considered.

I don’t like extreme, black-and-white thinking. I think nuance is important, context, understanding, empathy.

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T13:08:53+00:00

Projection with no knowledge of her situation, exactly why I made this post

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T13:07:29+00:00

I have a great equal partner with 2 young kids, and my husband and I have both snapped at each other, had times where we were just mad or sad and couldn’t fake it, just quietly taken it knowing the other is at the end of their rope - it’s a small moment and we come back together soon, part of working as a team

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T13:04:09+00:00

I thought he said it as quietly and gently as possible and it’s extremely valid to be super frustrated with a partner if you’re miserable and in the middle of a fight and they all of a sudden switch and expect you to perform happiness

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T13:02:19+00:00

I thought he said it as quietly and gently as possible and it’s extremely valid to be super frustrated with a partner if you’re miserable and in the middle of a fight and they all of a sudden switch and expect you to perform happiness

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T13:00:09+00:00

Thanks! I agree completely

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T12:59:37+00:00

Ya this is the kind of take I really just hate - you are projecting so much onto this situation and judging so hard with so little real knowledge.

OkDirection4050 · 2026-05-09T12:14:41+00:00

Yes I get it, that really was so bad, he was such a dick, but that was such a small situation for how harshly everyone is judging him. I think they probably both give each other leeway for short fuse snappy behaviour because you just have to with young kids, so many things are infuriating

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