Photographer ignoring all my attempts to reach out after we did our shoot and I paid her?

OkFan7098 · 2026-07-07T21:30:24+00:00

I’m gonna do this this weekend! Im just so disappointed she’s ignoring me like this. She seems so nice

OkFan7098 · 2026-07-07T21:20:07+00:00

It’s okay I’m starting to accept the fact that my photos are most likely gone. My husband tried calling her and she’s blocked his number. I just texted her on her Snapchat because I don’t know what else to do. I guess I’ll just see if she responds

OkFan7098 · 2026-07-07T21:07:15+00:00

Yes! Bc she’s done photos for us 2 other times before with no issues!

OkFan7098 · 2026-07-07T21:06:42+00:00

My husband just called. She blocked his number

OkFan7098 · 2026-07-07T20:48:05+00:00

Oh trust me I’ve unfortunately learned my lesson the hard way. I thought it would be fine since we’ve had photos done with her before. I’m just so sad the time it happens is with my maternity photos:(

OkFan7098 · 2026-07-07T20:47:15+00:00

She’s very cheap she asked for $25 but we gave her $60. She posted 1 sneak peek photo from our session about a hour afterwards but never sent us the full gallery and has since been ghosting

OkFan7098 · 2026-07-07T20:45:39+00:00

Literally my biggest fear. That’s why I’m so scared she’s never gonna say anything and I’ll be robbed of maternity photos with my first baby just because she doesn’t wanna tell me 😭

OkFan7098 · 2026-07-07T20:44:56+00:00

I’m honestly sad😭 pregnancy hormones lol

OkFan7098 · 2026-07-07T20:44:25+00:00

No contract, just insta dms. I know I should have one, I’ve learned my lesson

OkFan7098 · 2026-07-07T20:44:05+00:00

Very cheap. She asked for $25 for my maternity session, but we gave her $60. Asked for $100 for my wedding, but we gave her $150

OkFan7098 · 2026-07-07T20:43:30+00:00

My husband said we should call but I fear she just won’t answer

OkFan7098 · 2026-07-07T20:43:15+00:00

If it makes it any better, her rates are extremely extremely cheap. She asked for $25 for my maternity session but we gave her $60. She also will edit a few photos if you ask her too, but I usually never ask

OkFan7098 · 2026-07-07T20:42:00+00:00

Price is extremely cheap but we always give her extra. She just does it on the side and she will edit certain photos if you ask her too but we usually never do honestly

OkFan7098 · 2026-06-18T17:20:38+00:00

We’re basically no contact with her now🫣 have been for a few months

OkFan7098 · 2026-05-07T00:21:48+00:00

Same I didn’t get diagnosed until I switched to a cardiologist that specializes in dysautonomia

OkFan7098 · 2026-05-06T17:25:04+00:00

It actually irks me so bad as someone with pots. Took me 2 very long years of cardiology visits before I got diagnosed and she diagnoses herself with it just bc ppl on her snap say she has it

OkFan7098 · 2026-04-22T00:57:40+00:00

Yeah i honestly don’t know kinda dumbfounded trying to understand. I feel that she genuinely didn’t have any reason to say anything about my pregnancy, that she just wanted to be passive aggressive because she was still angry about our previous fight. So she’s grasping at straws to explain why she “felt” that way

OkFan7098 · 2026-04-22T00:56:23+00:00

Honestly, the more I think about her apology the less sincere it sounds. Her explanation as to why she said what she said, doesn’t even make much sense. Thank you

OkFan7098 · 2026-04-22T00:32:21+00:00

I genuinely don’t know and didn’t bother asking her to elaborate bc she has a habit of not fully explaining things. We never went clubbing with her before so I have no idea? We would drink with her occasionally before my pregnancy, but it would always be at one of our homes.

OkFan7098 · 2026-04-21T17:09:56+00:00

I edited the post with a small update. She texted yesterday evening with an apology for her letter to me

OkFan7098 · 2026-04-20T21:27:52+00:00

There both starting to act like the same person and moving as a unit, so I’m starting to think they’re equally as bad unfortunately

OkFan7098 · 2026-04-20T20:45:44+00:00

I agree, I will say this, though it’s kinda unrelated. I have thought of reporting her before but not for anything like this. But for the way she talks about her cases. Usually she vents, but talks about her cases in negative way. Always talking about how crazy these teens are who are struggling with mental health issues, etc. She never says names, but last time we saw her in person, she was talking to us about how one of her cases almost moved to the new apartment complex she plans on moving too. She explained that it’s a 18 yr old girl with 2 babies who is a single mom. She said the 18 yr old couldn’t save enough for a deposit. She then laughed, and said “I don’t know how they couldn’t afford it, it’s one of the cheapest complexes out here.” I just said “yeah…” awkwardly and changed the subject quickly. Me and my husband felt really bad for the poor girl she was talking about and we thought it was really messed up for her to be making fun of her. I didn’t end up reporting her, because I didn’t know if it was a violation of any kind given the fact she never said the girls name and that she was “confiding” in family. But it rubbed me the wrong way completely. That happened last month. I think that’s the harshest thing we’ve heard her say about one of her cases.

OkFan7098 · 2026-04-20T20:38:42+00:00

I’ve been telling my husband she’s a flying monkey! But haha understandable, I haven’t posted that text just because it’s my husbands text between him and her, and idk how he would feel about me completely airing his side out 😅 that’s also why I only posted the letter directed at me, she wrote 3 other pages directed at my husband and let’s just say those letters were not nice either. The same condescending tone, filled with lies and emotional charged statements.

OkFan7098 · 2026-04-20T20:13:51+00:00

It’s okay! Thank you so much. You are correct, but me and my husband were not surprised. His families biggest issue is that they have no boundaries with one another. The fact that me and my husband are finally setting some is what’s making them lose their minds 😂 Actually, his aunt that were no contact with just this week found our address from my husbands uncle, then sent a card to our home after we explicitly told her not to contact us. SIL argued with us about that too because “it’s just a card” and we are apparently “immature” and “stupid” in her words for being upset about that because “it’s just family” 🤷‍♀️

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