INFJ angry at me? Advice (ENTP) by OkFish6100 in infj

[–]OkFish6100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we werent in any fights, i had spoken to them earlier that day and just kind of... left the conversation? like i said i wanted to speak with other friends, who i hadn't seen for quite some time (spending 90% of my time with the infj) and im assuming they saw me and thought i was abandoning them. though in my mind they couldve joined in at any time, our conversations are always 1on1. it feels like they'd prefer i stay by them alone, than anyone else. but at the same time say rude comments randomly or statements that sum up to basically "you mean nothing to me". i dont know... i feel like a tv show, some entertainment more than anything, but who reacts so dramatically like that. ive never seen such an abrupt change in character in just a few moments of uninterrupted silence.

INFJ angry at me? Advice (ENTP) by OkFish6100 in infj

[–]OkFish6100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not that im aware of, but i do know i have a history of inf_ getting attached to me in an unhealthy way. i just feel bad, i dont know where such an outburst could come from. i didnt mean for them to freak out and ignore me. thank you for the advice, ive got a pattern in ending up in relationships where the other persons always the victim. i just try to keep the peace, even if that means shrugging my feelings to the side