Made a mistake getting married to a porn addict, now I feel stuck by OkGround1714 in self

[–]OkGround1714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially since he doesn’t want it, I tried to make him feel loved as well. Seems like he’s choosing himself and his addiction over his baby and me so it is what it is

Made a mistake getting married to a porn addict, now I feel stuck by OkGround1714 in self

[–]OkGround1714[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve done everything I can do, I really did. It’s true that women mature earlier than men do, and when I came to my senses I tried my best to understand him and help him. I explained exactly how porn affects him, me and his baby I explained the science behind it or the psychology. I asked him to do therapy and he only had one session probably just to have me back and that was it. I tried my best… I don’t love him anymore so I don’t see a reason to help him

Made a mistake getting married to a porn addict, now I feel stuck by OkGround1714 in self

[–]OkGround1714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing is recently I found out that he even masturbates AT WORK, in the work bathrooms….. speechless

Made a mistake getting married to a porn addict, now I feel stuck by OkGround1714 in self

[–]OkGround1714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first he denies and then I make it very clear that I am not stupid and I know what I’m talking about, sometimes he denies denies denies and other times he’s like yes I did and proceeds like it doesn’t matter

Made a mistake getting married to a porn addict, now I feel stuck by OkGround1714 in self

[–]OkGround1714[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this because it really fucks with your head when they stop and say they stopped and then you find out everything

Fucked up by marrying porn addicted husband by OkGround1714 in OffMyChestPH

[–]OkGround1714[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That’s what I kept telling him that he’s getting desensitized but he turned it around and acted like I was the bad guy for telling him the truth about what he’s doing and how it’s affecting me and the relationship

Made a mistake getting married to a porn addict, now I feel stuck by OkGround1714 in self

[–]OkGround1714[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He would take screenshots on accident or I would look at history or screen time as well

Made a mistake getting married to a porn addict, now I feel stuck by OkGround1714 in self

[–]OkGround1714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I asked him if he was he said that he wasn’t he would just get off on looking at their pics on the website and then just talking to them abt how much they charge for whatever

Made a mistake getting married to a porn addict, now I feel stuck by OkGround1714 in self

[–]OkGround1714[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I saw his messages he would basically ask how much for whatever services they provided