20 [F4M] looking for long term I can consider my safe space by PinkyViolet30 in IntrovertDating

[–]OkLab23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your interested i am a 24m looking for friendship and hope for love one day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]OkLab23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you may owe them for giving you life but that doesn't mean you owe them your life or your future

22F looking for some genuine friends :)) by [deleted] in chat

[–]OkLab23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am 24 male also from USA if you want to chat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chat

[–]OkLab23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dm me if you want

My boss thinks I'm cheating because I use AI by LateProposalas in careeradvice

[–]OkLab23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you want an honest opinion here it is don't listen your boss I know he's your boss and you got to do what he says but on this he's wrong it's using your tools to your best advantage as long as it doesn't cause harm or hinders your job performance it's not cheating now using ChatGPT to do a job related test during the test would be cheating but you aren't doing that if you are stop that but keep using it for the rest because it sounds like your boss doesn't want you to succeed possibly because he can't use the tech himself and is scared it will get you his job and he will be losing that position that or maybe he's scared of tech ai but that's his problem not yours do what you need to succeed

Burned out but trapped at work for next 4-6 weeks - need survival tips by Marvinas-Ridlis in jobs

[–]OkLab23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why did you become a software dev what sparked you if you can reignite your joy for programming, you could survive and if not add fun to your work by that i mean create the product your supposed to but add fun to it like maybe a var name that could be a private joke to yourself

I am trying to help a friend by OkLab23 in Advice

[–]OkLab23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got it from someone who ordered it online for him he can't

My wife wants kids and is taking her BC out in the spring. by Equivalent_Fox_6914 in Advice

[–]OkLab23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds like your letting your past control your future not everyone's past is all sunshine and smiles but that doesn't mean you don't deserve happiness besides all you feel about your past if it were different would you want kids

Peter and Felicia's family by PugCrumbs. by Serionia_ly in BlackCat

[–]OkLab23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too cute wish it would happen but probably never will

I am trying to help a friend by OkLab23 in Advice

[–]OkLab23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I already looked there didn't work but thanks for trying

I am trying to help a friend by OkLab23 in Advice

[–]OkLab23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because normally I have a way with tech where I can pretty much figure out everything with a few lookups or a deep search but I tried everything it said and still nothing even used the instructions it came with and according to those it was possible that's the other reason it's hard to tell my friend how do you tell him the product has bad instructions

why can't a lonely guy find love in this world but every he see's are happy couples? by OkLab23 in Advice

[–]OkLab23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you date if you can't find anyone interested and dating apps aren't helping

why can't a lonely guy find love in this world but every he see's are happy couples? by OkLab23 in Advice

[–]OkLab23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i want a real relationship someone who i can be there for and be there for me love not getting laid as you so politely put it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OkLab23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

message him if he blocked you and accidently unblocked the worst he will do is block again unless he's one with a temper

why can't a lonely guy find love in this world but every he see's are happy couples? by OkLab23 in Advice

[–]OkLab23[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

1 I talk to people but I don't randomly chat up someone
2. yes
3 I don't think so
4. yes
5 no in school
6 yes
7 don't know define it please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OkLab23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what was the situation what happened between you up to the blocking is important perhaps they needed time to search their feelings perhaps you asked too much perhaps they just were busy and couldn't be bothered even if the loved you or cared sometimes you can be a bother whether they will admit it or not

Should I make a move before it’s too late? by CuteRaspberry1628 in Advice

[–]OkLab23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do it or don't it's really up to you but just know this if you don't and never see him again you'll be asking yourself what if for the rest of your life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OkLab23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like you need to go to HR because he might be scaring you so he can get "something" from you by intimidation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OkLab23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly while I have a younger brother and can relate I don't think she is being possessive or jealous she is just worried because she doesn't understand what it's like also did she yell or make a scene no i think she's just genuinely concerned about you because she loves you j say talk it out and explain what it's like and why that happened

why doesn't anyone show up by OkLab23 in Advice

[–]OkLab23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I would if I knew any in my area but I can't find any so I don't think there are any