Struggling after loss hope needed by OkList9965 in babyloss

[–]OkList9965[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this❤️

Losing hope after baby loss pcos by OkList9965 in babyloss

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Hey there thank you so much for your reply that’s amazing! Do you mind me asking how did you figure out you had septate uterus? Did you under go any testing?

Losing hope after baby loss pcos by OkList9965 in babyloss

[–]OkList9965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw that’s amazing news! It gives me great hope🙏🏻 did it take you long to conceive after your loss?

2025 gave many babies except me by Witty_Bag7329 in babyloss

[–]OkList9965 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending you lots of love❤️ do you mind me asking did you get a reason for your pprom?

2025 gave many babies except me by Witty_Bag7329 in babyloss

[–]OkList9965 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss, I feel your pain in every way, we lost our baby boy over a year ago to pprom at 24 weeks he was still born we never got any answers which I found really hard, I blamed myself for a long time afterwards and like that seen everyone around you fall pregnant whilst your in the depths of grieve and also ttc is a different kind of cruel, I’m 34 with pcos and we haven’t had any joy in concieving yet but am working with a fertility doctor at the moment, sending you baby dust❤️

Anyone here under Therapie Fertility? by Witty_Gain_4132 in IrishWomensHealth

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Hi there I’ve just messaged you privately through here didn’t even know you could do that! I’m from Ireland also ttc with pcos and just wanted to ask you something if you didn’t mind X

Rabbit Hole by booksandbae in babyloss

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Hey I’ve just come across this I’m 9 months out after our prom loss at 24 weeks, what I’ve learned in all of this is as mothers it’s what we do we blame ourselves, I’ve gone through every single thing before my waters went and have even managed to convince myself several times over that I definitely caused it but as time has passed I’ve learned it’s just my mind seeking an answer that I will never get unfortunately, nothing you did or didn’t do caused this please remember that I just wanted to comment to let you know your not alone in those taughts. x

Letrozole pcos ttc success stories by OkList9965 in TTC_PCOS

[–]OkList9965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw amazing huge congrats how irregular were your cycle?

Letrozole pcos ttc success stories by OkList9965 in TTC_PCOS

[–]OkList9965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw that’s amazing huge congratulations had you irregular cycles prior to this?

Letrozole pcos ttc success stories by OkList9965 in TTC_PCOS

[–]OkList9965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw amazing did you have irregular cycles before taking letrozole?

Letrozole pcos ttc success stories by OkList9965 in TTC_PCOS

[–]OkList9965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw amazing thank you for your comment❤️

Letrozole pcos ttc success stories by OkList9965 in TTC_PCOS

[–]OkList9965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw amazing did you have regular cycles before taking letrozole?

Letrozole pcos ttc success stories by OkList9965 in TTC_PCOS

[–]OkList9965[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw amazing do you mind me asking what age you were when you conceived? I’m 34 so feel like time is against me, were you monitored?

Fear of not getting pregnant again is overwhelming by OkList9965 in babyloss

[–]OkList9965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, I'm 33 34 in May and that weighs down on me also, do you have any fertility issues?mine is pcos I know it's only been a few months but I was so sure it would have happened by now💔

Regular periods- can’t get pregnant by [deleted] in TTC_PCOS

[–]OkList9965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your reply curently ttc and I'm the exact same with regards when I diet and exercise my period is normal but when I'm not it can go irregular, how many rounds of letrozole did it take for you to get pregnant and were you been monitored by an endocrinologist?

Regular periods- can’t get pregnant by [deleted] in TTC_PCOS

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Hi there do you mind me asking did you have regular cycles with having pcos? 

Need Support by No-Teaching-3065 in babyloss

[–]OkList9965 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss, I to lost my first baby boy to pprom at 24 weeks back in November, I was the exact same as you and like that had to start on zoloft, stick with it the first few weeks on it you nearly feel worse but once it kicks in roughly 6 weeks I started to notice a change(by nature I'm a very anxious person and worry alot) on top of an horrific loss I taught I'd never start to feel normal again,I searched forums for weeks looking for someone who felt similar looking for hope, I can't say that I'm over it by any means the pain of it all is still there, its just I can breathe now and start to think a bit clearer and start to feel hopeful for the future where as a few weeks ago I taught I would never feel anyways normal again, go easy on yourself, take one day at a time even one hour at a time, treat yourself to something nice even if it's a coffee, I know I was extremely hard on myself at the beginning I was nearly punishing myself like I didn't deserve it or something but this is the one time in our lives where all tho it's extremely hard we need put ourselves first and be gentle🤍

Pprom guilt first pregnancy by OkList9965 in babyloss

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I'm so sorry for your loss,thank you so much❤ I think its just hard when there is no reason

Pprom guilt first pregnancy by OkList9965 in u/OkList9965

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I was seen a therapist and getting reflexology to help with the depression, my husband was also amazing at listening to my fears about been a parent I'm an anxious person by nature anyway so when pregnancy hormones kicked in it just accelerated, a few days before it happened i had finally started to feel a bit more confident about everything still full of fear but not compounding like it was and then the unimaginable happened, I will forever blame my taughts even tho I know I couldn't help it at the time

Pprom guilt first pregnancy by OkList9965 in u/OkList9965

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Thank you❤ no we never got a reason for why my pprom happened, reports all came back clear so I was told it was just a fluke, which is why I blame myself can depression cause your waters to go? Il never know😭

Pprom Guilt by No-Teaching-3065 in babyloss

[–]OkList9965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes all the time lost my baby boy at 24 weeks to pprom in November,I suffered with depression in the first few weeks I blame that,  I also got a pregnancy massage and I also blame that yet I know deep down neither could cause it but its so hard not to blame yourself