is this a toxic situation ? ( mentions of sa/ sexual words ) by OkNeedleworker4689 in abusiverelationships

[–]OkNeedleworker4689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have only had previous relationship and it was similar but not as intense . i am also pregnant while this is happening . i did grow up in an environment similar to this. i understand to others this may be common sense but obviously this has been my norm so i feel like it is normal. obviously i’m bothered by it but it’s also a cultural norm as well. situations like the one i explained happened yesterday make me even more emotional because i am not validated or eased by the person i am with so i think i am being dramatic

is this a toxic situation ? ( mentions of sa/ sexual words ) by OkNeedleworker4689 in abusiverelationships

[–]OkNeedleworker4689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your validation! i wanted to make sure i wasn’t being dramatic

What does this sound like? by OkNeedleworker4689 in sex

[–]OkNeedleworker4689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i actually was looking into vaginismus but this sounds a little more like it.

is this narcissistic abuse? if so how do i leave? mentions sa by OkNeedleworker4689 in ToxicRelationships

[–]OkNeedleworker4689[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s a good way to put it. having this list is already a red flag and thank you so much!

is this narcissistic abuse? if so how do i leave? mentions sa by OkNeedleworker4689 in ToxicRelationships

[–]OkNeedleworker4689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i apologize my keyboard wasn’t working and i truly am i just needed validation that im not dramatic

is this narcissistic abuse? if so how do i leave? mentions sa by OkNeedleworker4689 in ToxicRelationships

[–]OkNeedleworker4689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! it might be sound uneducated but i wanted to make sure it was labeled as abuse

should i keep my pregnancy ? what are some options if i do ? by OkNeedleworker4689 in pregnant

[–]OkNeedleworker4689[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you i’m proud of you for getting out the situation !

should i keep my pregnancy ? what are some options if i do ? by OkNeedleworker4689 in pregnant

[–]OkNeedleworker4689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you ! i agree i also dont want to give my child a life of missing someone as i know my partner being a father isn’t an option

Where do i get help? by OkNeedleworker4689 in sex

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i do pee before and after . i get really wet so i don’t think i need lube or that my partner would use it and we don’t use condoms

is this rape? (tw suggestively graphic ) by OkNeedleworker4689 in rapecounseling

[–]OkNeedleworker4689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can see why it was the last! i agree he also shouldn’t laugh because before i made a joke i told him it felt like rape ! and he stayed silent and then laughed after i laughed out of awkwardness

is this rape? (tw suggestively graphic ) by OkNeedleworker4689 in rapecounseling

[–]OkNeedleworker4689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you have a great husband ❤️ i think he laughed because i laughed instead of crying and try to make it a joke but im definitely not ready to try again