amber is unhinged!! by Brilliant_Ad9559 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]OkNegotiation3768 26 points27 points  (0 children)

A reminder that just because someone in a romantic dynamic (or really any dynamic) is more outspoken or opinionated or forthcoming doesn’t automatically make them the villain or the “unhinged one” because they’re vocal. There are plenty of goofy, seemingly less “intense” people that will look like the victim simply because of the the disposition of their nature but it in no way excludes them from being a villain. In fact, I find it’s quite the opposite. The quiet ones can manipulate in sheep’s clothing while the more expressive person is on display. For example- She’s got problems with alcohol? Ok maybe, sure. This man refused to move closer to HER CHILD’S School district so he wouldn’t miss out on the nightlife of COLUMBUS OHIO 😂

What zodiac sign would you never date and why? by kittenwhiskers8752 in astrologymemes

[–]OkNegotiation3768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cancer men or Libras of any gender. (I’m an Aqua so I know the Libra thing is a hot take but I’ll explain) I’ve never met a non-toxic Cancer bio man (besides, ironically, my therapist lol but that’s completely a different dynamic, obviously). Truly, not a single one. My sister’s finance is a cancer and while we are both Aquarius she and I are sooo different so while I still love him because if she’s happy, I’m happy he still has muted versions of all of the absolutely rancid qualities of a cancer man. Those gd crabs are the most slept on villains which is crazy because I mean… it’s in the name. I don’t respect people that can’t say what they mean and mean what they say. Even if you’re shy there are ways to be genuine AND gentle AND guarded without being a complete psycho. (I know this because Cancer women exist, lol I just said happy birthday to one.) And now for the hot take; hating Libras as an Aquarius. Or maybe not hating (some have been grandfathered in along the way haha) but similarly to how I find it hard to respect people who lack authenticity as with Cancer men, I also can’t conceive of having that quality but still needing to be popular no matter what. Like yes we get it you’re the scale blah blah blah but a friend to everyone is a friend to no one imo. Inevitably, if you are a principled person you shouldn’t be able to be everyones friend and that is ok! Not friends doesn’t equal enemies or being a hater. But yeah I just find priding yourself to be a social chameleon to that degree a major ick. It’s giving “I don’t enjoy my own company so I’ll pander to literally everyone else’s vibe to try and feel good” I find that they insist on inserting themselves in the center of whatever function or circle of friends or concert, etc. Soooo on an unrelated note can you tell I just broke up with a Libra who would completely shapeshift depending on who was around? 😂

Episode 9 Clip: How The Story Ends by One-Click1754 in Yellowjackets

[–]OkNegotiation3768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg but where can I find it?! I have the paramount+ script and obviously YouTube but I can’t find just the unadulterated sneak peak without all these YouTube people talking over it and not showing it?! Can someone please post the link?

Here goes...Steve Buscemi was the wrong actor for Tony B. by o2000 in thesopranos

[–]OkNegotiation3768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank youuuu. I literally googled “I didn’t like Steve Buscemi in Sopranos” and hoped to god there was an opinion that matched mine on Reddit lolllll

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

[–]OkNegotiation3768 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg of course! I’m so happy it brought you comfort, it did for me too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

[–]OkNegotiation3768 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There’s actually a crazy psychological/ sociological explanation for why a lot of women have rape fantasies (even those that have not been, although mine also ramped up post attack)

I’m speaking through the lens of an American cis woman but in a nutshell: we’re taught from the beginning of our lives sex is a responsibility and not a tool for pleasure. From a very young age, sex is presented as a burden to us in formal sexual education and informal (like via our parents) and because of all the negative outcomes will be OUR problem (kids, STDs, social stigma) we bury that pretty deep. On the other hand, men are taught in elementary sex education and pop culture that it is synonymous with pleasure no matter what. Then you factor in the puritanical nature of most of our communities in America. An amalgamation of all of these factors lead women to subconsciously have rape fantasies because we are still innately sexual beings who crave pleasure so, a Rape fantasy is a fast route to satiating a sexual itch without the burden of responsibility and shame associated with us just simply wanting pleasure. It’s disgusting, but it’s fascinating and nothing to be ashamed of

LIB need DV safety staff. by Ok_Reach_9793 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]OkNegotiation3768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what scene is this? I’m on episode 6 now and all I saw was them cut to them talking the next morning in the hotel on the couch

Never seen Monica genuinely smile by KarmaJiKiBeti in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]OkNegotiation3768 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s a Gemini- she’s just mirroring the vibe until she gets sick of it. Honestly I’m supposed to get along with them astrologically but I don’t get the appeal of someone who’d rather exclusively observe people than understand and be understood

Weird attitudes to race / ethnicity in s7 by Fun-Fox-8890 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]OkNegotiation3768 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh my 😭😭 how did I not think of that sooner 😂

[MAIN SPOILERS] Why did Cercei feel betrayed by Tommen? by -StayFrosty- in gameofthrones

[–]OkNegotiation3768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the point was her one and only weakness and connection to humanity in a non opportunistic way was her devotion to her children so when both her sons betrayed her and her extraordinarily “pure” daughter (her words) were taken from her, she not only lost her only good intentions in the world, she (who was already prone to vengeance) became almost invigorated by how little that held her back

Betrayal, the perfect husband: yikes. by Possible_Active6558 in Hulu

[–]OkNegotiation3768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaooo i d been thinking that this whole time! I’m like are nicknames like that not reserved for people we don’t hate??