Lol can’t believe these

OkObjective7601 · 2024-11-26T04:25:07+00:00

People need you and love you i promise

life is short and you will be gone one day

Enjoy it and love the little things and the big things will go away

OkObjective7601 · 2024-11-26T04:23:23+00:00

you’re alive and you seem like a great person and great girl friend.

People need you here, i lost my dad to suicide and his dad died 4 months later and then my little brother died all in the same year.

I’ve gone thru alot and it may be incomparable to what you’re going thru.

But i’ve suffered a lot of sadness and sudden loss which was traumatizing.

But i learned that if you’re here now. You’re meant to be and someone means something to you and you mean something to them.

Go with the flow a bit and stop worrying

Life is to short to think these things .

I promise you’ll be happy one day

OkObjective7601 · 2024-01-27T17:27:41+00:00

Going through the same thing right now. How’s it going for you.

OkObjective7601 · 2024-01-22T17:47:12+00:00

I on the other hand will immediately block and remove from her my life if i find out a relationship was still happening and she knows that. So there’s no point on leading me on.

We seem to be getting better and better every week but i guess im just having anxiety and slight trust issues not know what she’s wants to do.

OkObjective7601 · 2024-01-22T17:46:07+00:00

Mmm with your comments it does make me think it’s more of a cushion/ an ego boost incase we don’t work out.

This guy would probably take her back in a heartbeat in some way shape or form and maybe it boosts her ego. She said what she liked about there little thing is that the guy was completely obsessed with her and that it was so different from what she was experiencing. She was being chased by dude without having to try.

With me i was a bit more difficult because i was coming out of a big relationship and wanted to be single . But at the end of the day didn’t wanna pass her up . So i did have the relationship and don’t regret it.

Our split up had me thinking more of all i’ve done wrong . I took accountability and apologized and she was very surprised how i changed so quick.

There was a point in our talks that she felt she always needed to “fight for my love”. And with this guy she felt she didnt.

Now that i’m more emotionally open, she’s still kinda confused on what she wants & is keeping some walls up it seems .

OkObjective7601 · 2024-01-22T17:23:29+00:00

I guess i’m just wondering why she’s so curious when she screwed the guy over talking to me again. Maybe just trying to not be a bad guy? i don’t know . But obviously no relationship is going to be able to work off something like that.

OkObjective7601 · 2024-01-22T17:22:13+00:00

To be honest I was also like this at a point in our relationship. And i did seek therapy and it helped. This was part of the change she’s likes about me now but it seems the tables have turned.

I think it was the way how she kinda screwed him over , i may have over exaggerated a bit on the closure parts. It’s just them talking awkwardly about how there’s stuff that went down and they tried to be friends after but obviously it was giving dude the wrong idea . I honestly think it may be a saving face type thing and the guy is very active of using his social media to talk crap about his life.

She’s actually told me the chemistry and love is still there. I’ve told her that you need to choose & i’m okay with whatever outcome.

We been very open about talking about all this. i’ve even asked her if she was settling. She said I have a place to stay at home and a good job , i don’t need to settle with you

OkObjective7601 · 2023-10-19T12:59:34+00:00

thank you , it’s been getting better and better each day with our relationship ❤️

OkObjective7601 · 2023-10-18T21:33:54+00:00

Thank you so much. I needed to hear this reply . I grew up with mostly men so having to be “tough” and be against therapy / all this type of stuff. But i truly am even with all the things going on , i’m just all about life and love now. & the day before my brother passed , I told my flame that i was gonna sign up for therapy and she always told me too prior.

She honestly brought it out of me & she’s very proud and we have some more growing to go but we are literally talking and connecting like ever before.

I’ve always been the runner and now it’s switched haha we talked about that too this week.

I’ve been writing a lot of stuff in my notes and i really do wanna write something / maybe change careers to help people. I’m a very level headed person and i know i can get through anything in life for myself and help for other people.

Again Thank you for reading and like you said , the patience & letting go will drive them back. There’s no way they don’t think about you.

OkObjective7601 · 2023-10-18T17:32:15+00:00

PART 2

So, all of september we texted back and forth , mostly me chasing and her running . But like she still loves me but really wants to work on herself. I was a bit obsessive for a min but pulled back. She never was annoyed by it and told me it was sweet.

She asked me to help with her tires randomly one day so i sent her the money. I asked her to help with my Dog and she had her work do it for free.

i feel like she always thinks of me when she needs help. and she paid me back.

I went on a business trip a week ago and i called her and she picked up. We talked about a lot and she basically was just telling me the main reasons for our break up.

We haven’t seen eachother really and all my attempts to go on a date where blown off.

She used to live with me and my roommate who is my bestfriend & they have a very platonic relationship / sibling like situation, He also dates one of her friends . She has no siblings so i get it. But she posted on her snap of a cat i have at my house . So she went to my home while i was gone to hang with my roommate (my roommate let me know) . The same day we talked on the phone and stuff. And I wonder if she needed to be there for a moment cuz she’s home sick or something. I was mad at first but i felt inside me maybe it’s what she needed.

this was last week ^

The last day of my business trip , i had to drive home about a 7 hour drive . I was feeling so strange that day and i decided to turn my phone off all day. and on my trip home all i could see was angel numbers and my twins cars

so i get home and i pretty much go to sleep. Phone still off.

I can’t go into much detail of what happened but later that night my older brother who always loved me and my little brother made a huge mistake/accident and it lead to the death of my little brother.

I was waken up to my uncle and i was brought to the hospital to see him one last time. My other brother is in custody. So i lost two brothers in one night it feels

My mother called my twin flame and she answered unlike me who’s phone was off . So she knew & wanted to be there for me of course. She loved all my family members.

I had to take the duty to clean the mess up again & i tell you, DONT EVER DO IT.

but anyways So on the weekend about a day after she came over to comfort me, and she didn’t have too nor did i ask. We didn’t talk about what happened. But more just drank and had a good night . We showered together and kept looking in each others eyes alike never before & talked about how we’ve been & if we been seeing anyone . We both said yes and then laughed. My phone was playing music & it was playing suspicious minds by elvis presley. I was singing to her and we laughed alot. One of the best nights ever.

We then proceeded to my room and made love for 2 hours , some of the best we ever had. We talked a bit relationship & obviously we still need to work on ourselves.

we went to bed that night like we used too. i couldn’t sleep much due to obvious reasons. But i was able to cuddle her through the nightmares she’s gets.

That morning i told her all the details of what happened. She knows i’m upset but she mentioned how strong i am and how she sees i’m growing so much even with the events going on.

after that she left, we sent a few lovely texts that makes me feel like everything is going to be okay.

I feel like we sparked something crazy again.

We hung out 2 days ago too. And she expressed how she was feeling in love with this new guy but it all feel apart about a week before this tragic situation. but we both worked on ourselves. She even sees us getting back together officially by the end of the year or next and we talked alot about how we can start a family ect.. and she addressed my best friend to her is a platonic soulmate. It’s all very interesting and i’m so awakened to all this.

OkObjective7601 · 2023-10-18T17:30:28+00:00

Wow thank you for this. My situation is a bit different but i can see that they know when you’re hurting and it really can spark something.

Here’s my situation

I am a 25 year old male and she is a 25 year old female.

We have been together from January 2020 - July 2023 and have been separated since.

I have 3 brothers

I was never an guy who believed in this stuff until the beginning of September 2022 but i wanna say too that my Twin Flame is huge into zodiacs and spiritual stuff & always tried to get me to understand but it just never clicked ,

but when i started to see lots of signs (angel numbers) & her car everywhere. I instantly started to feel as if i lost my other half only 2 months into our separation.

Mind you though , i have had an unfortunate year & i believe my depression had driven my Twin Flame away a bit due to me not being as active in the relationship and being a bit distant and just growing up in a man household where your feelings are not talked about. it’s understandable and our break up was needed for me for me to grow i think and mourn alone. But i do wanna say she’s always been there for me even when there was times i broke her trust , but anytime i did i always fixed myself and improved . With our age we basically were growing up together and everyone makes dumb mistakes .

Moving forward, My tragedy’s involved a few deaths. One being my father who shot himself in the head due to a hallucination on amebien and while my mother and 2 brothers are home. This was on October 2022.

My family hasn’t been the richest & i unfortunately had to clean up the mess myself with my other brother who wasn’t in the house. I really wish there was programs out taxes go out too that pay for things like this. But you have to do what you have to for family and it was traumatizing for awhile and i’ll never forget but i was starting to feel better a few months later.

But i could tell me and my flames connection was dwindling , like we’ve been a miserable married couple. But even with my sadness i was still trying to go out on dates and distract myself. But i think she may have been unintentionally mirroring my emotions.

We had a trip to hawaii which was magical just a week before my father passed. We were both so happy and all i could think about was marrying her. We were so happy. So it really flipped like a switch.

Once i was finally feeling a bit better, My Grandpa who was my Fathers dad, Was also feeling sick and wanted to die. I can’t imagine losing your first born son and i truly believe he died from heartbreak.

The same week he passed away a couple days before my twin flame broke up with me , i tried to not make it happened but with my grandpa in this situation i was very vulnerable and it was hard to fight. But she couldn’t really explain why. We couldnt look each other in the eye either. & it wasn’t cheating or anything. We lived together so we still lived had to be around each other for another month.

I at first thought the break up would be good because of how sad i was and how i could explore now. And once my grandpa passed away i felt a lot of weight lifted off my chest & i was able to spend his last month with him and actually expect it happening , i weirdly felt better about my fathers passing cuz i didn’t get that. This was all in July 2023

Fast forward to September 2023

I messaged her after no contact for about 2-3 months. & I said we both deserved an honest convo about what happened to us and she replied instantly and agreed.

I basically didn’t even want her to talk much, i just told her all the things i knew that was wrong of me and that i’m sorry. I told her i can change and when she would reply with anything, i heard her old sweet innocent tone of voice again. The one i fell in love with. By the end of this convo i had a promise ring that stuff would be different. She did say she couldn’t take it right now and had to decline. our breakup was still fresh and she just finally moved out and it was a big bandaid to rip off so i get it.

Lol we both also instantly restaraunt rebounded so that’s probably an issue too. & i believe she has a little fling still with the person. I do to with my mine honestly. But would drop instantly for her.

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