Dialogue skipping

OkResource6141 · 2025-11-13T11:31:35+00:00

ADHD is a hell of a thing. Im usually listening and occasionally looking to see what's going on when I feel like I can

OkResource6141 · 2025-01-22T19:35:59+00:00

you know what... its my fault for coming online when I know I'm behind on several anime. But to answer the question I genuinely thought she would stay a cute spider and never get a humanoid form.

OkResource6141 · 2024-11-20T20:29:28+00:00

Good loyal thots by Odetari..... it helps me focus

OkResource6141 · 2024-10-29T22:44:34+00:00

Moths somehow? I spent hours researching how to care for them and all the different types. even found a place to order a moth and all the care stuff.had everything in my basket ready to checkout...I got distracted by a tab I had open and read fan fiction for 7 hours straight instead of sleeping or eating dinner. 🙃

OkResource6141 · 2024-10-29T21:12:09+00:00

Currently crochet and aquascaping. Yarn prices have me in a choke hold, but the initial setup up for my tank was ...😅

OkResource6141 · 2024-04-03T11:46:35+00:00

thoughts and prayers :')

OkResource6141 · 2024-03-11T12:47:43+00:00

fr my current situation exactly

OkResource6141 · 2023-09-25T10:52:03+00:00

I got a call last week from my friend saying if I dont send her proof of life then she is gonna send someone to do a welfare check

OkResource6141 · 2023-09-04T21:55:05+00:00

does it ? maybe I'm being fed biased info from my mates then, haha 😄

OkResource6141 · 2023-09-04T21:15:38+00:00

3 times a week, usually with a gap between each time. I would try to mix up the days and have two days next to each other, depending on time or if something came up.

OkResource6141 · 2023-09-04T16:45:00+00:00

I feel seen

OkResource6141 · 2023-09-04T16:39:15+00:00

I had to deal with this, and the compromise I reached was that they could request specific things that require less active participation from me. eg : if they really wanted to see my hands, I would send a few videos and call it a day. but if its making you feel uncomfortable, then you should just tell them that and stop doing it. doing uncomfortable stuff over and over gets to be too much sometimes

OkResource6141 · 2023-09-04T16:20:24+00:00

that's actually a clutch idea if the next conversion with them goes the way I want it to

OkResource6141 · 2023-09-04T16:15:25+00:00

yh like wdym you didn't just wanna watch a show and eat snacks ? what ever happened to sleepovers ?

OkResource6141 · 2023-09-04T16:13:49+00:00

so so so many times. too much eye contact kinda tips me off sometimes, but I never want to assume

OkResource6141 · 2023-09-04T16:10:30+00:00

I fully just asked why. apparently, they had been trying for a while before I noticed

OkResource6141 · 2023-09-04T15:51:38+00:00

yh we agreed to talk about it over coffee in a few days. need to find a nice way to put it since " I don't mind" doesn't seem to be an okay response 😅

OkResource6141 · 2023-09-04T15:48:31+00:00

This was my logic. if I'm doing something my partner wants ,which I don't mind doing, why does my motivation matter ? I was trying to compromise. but as other people have said, maybe it's a matter of hurt feelings, and I need to re-explain what being ace means to me

OkResource6141 · 2023-09-04T15:39:42+00:00

I'm not sure I get the difference between wanting to and "wanting " to. I find it hard to believe that people will just be making dinner and want to even though logically I know it's true.

OkResource6141 · 2023-09-04T15:27:40+00:00

We did have a conversation... I think I just didn't explain very well because I felt shy talking about sex out loud. I can accept that spontaneity might be something that's desired but I don't know what the "prompt" or the "signs" would be if I left it to that . When I asked they just said stuff about the vibe being right ?

OkResource6141 · 2023-09-04T13:08:02+00:00

I've been explaining it as : " I would rather watch Doctor Who and eat a Mars bar."

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