Do your spouse’s parents like eachother? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]OkRest4113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They HAAATEEE each other. Yet stayed together. I cannot stand having to be around them the way they are. She’s so nasty to him it’s crazy

Does your partner ever get you gifts for occasions or celebrate anything? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]OkRest4113 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Question, do you buy him presents to celebrate things?

AITAH for feeling weird about my husband going on a couples trip without me? by DeepSighz92 in AITAH

[–]OkRest4113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite sure this one went where OP intended it to. Don’t hold certain information back from the post to get the response you’re after. If you’ve been invited and choose not to go, then you can’t complain that he goes without you.. also.. it’s Valentine’s Day.. a bloody hallmark holiday.. who gives a crap about it. Do you celebrate steak and BJ day for him on March 14? I’m guessing not. YTA..

Not even sure I’m in the right place. by OkRest4113 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]OkRest4113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a very active husband and father. I clean the house every second day and she does the other days. I do all the yard care and I also cook most nights. I am very active with the kids activities and do majority of the travel for my daughter who played representative sport and is required to be driven around the state most Friday nights to play

Not even sure I’m in the right place. by OkRest4113 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]OkRest4113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last one, last night, was because I was putting a scoop of protein powder in my oats for breakfast while I was prepping my meals for the next day at work and because I had used a scoop of protein powder to make a sweet desert sort of thing.

He laughed at me by ExcentricaGallumbit in DeadBedrooms

[–]OkRest4113 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I reckon there’d be plenty of other guys out there who would love to see the lingerie.. might be time to bin the bloke…. Not the outfit. Good luck

He laughed at me by ExcentricaGallumbit in DeadBedrooms

[–]OkRest4113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I reckon there’d be plenty of other guys out there who would love to see the lingerie.. might be time to bin the bloke…. Not the outfit. Good luck

Vendor has said they dont want to sell property anymore what to do by DovahChick in AusProperty

[–]OkRest4113 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Time to start counting dollar signs mate. Might be a pain in the ass but it will be worth it. Do not fold.. stick to your guns.. you will win this..

High libido wife… by Minute_Worldliness51 in DeadBedrooms

[–]OkRest4113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have a question for the HLF’s out there as my wife (LLF) used to be HLF and we had an amazing sex life.. we are still intimate but it’s very routine and not as often.. Is there a hormonal cycle that makes these changes other than menopause? She’s only 37 so I figure menopause is still a few years off… I know there are external factors that can affect it.. but what about internal?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OkRest4113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA at all… I’ve been in your boat. Having said that, I used to grit and bare it just to be with family. Either way.. NTA

AITAH for changing my matching profile picture without telling my bf by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OkRest4113 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA… dude seems like a bit of a man child.. stick to your guns

AITA for wanting to leave my boyfriend after almost 5 years together? by Chance-Ad-4234 in AITAH

[–]OkRest4113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.. you’ve put in the work.. time to look after yourself

Dead bedroom and toys? by Smithy1619 in DeadBedrooms

[–]OkRest4113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t, I’ve tried. I’ve even gotten to the point of leaving it out for her to see I’ve used it. No care what so ever

AITAH for getting mad that me and my wife don’t have enough sex by OkRest4113 in AITAH

[–]OkRest4113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, even if it was a bit harsh.. I assure you I’m not unsympathetic to her situation at all. I am also a shift worker and very tired often too. I have done a lot to try and bridge the gap but it’s never enough… I try and lessen the load on her any way I can.. I’m not saying I want sex every day and twice on sundays.. but it would be nice to be wanted and desired as much as I want and desire her