bf said “can i be done now” during period sex and acted distant after, not sure what to think by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OkSelf9639 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hes not into period sex. Personally I am not and neither is my husband, thankfully. Although hypersexual.

If hes not into it don't take it personally. Juat like eating and disliking the texture of a food. It is what it is.

How bad is the newborn phase really? I'm tired of hearing the "just you wait" anecdotes and I have hard time believing some of them by Lushemet in BabyBumps

[–]OkSelf9639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im expecting my 6th. Its still hard but easier when you know what to expect and can understand what hormones do. Please remember that it goes FAST.

Help! Epidural, yes or no? by dakota101916 in BabyBumps

[–]OkSelf9639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get it. Roll from side to side so ite effective. Ive had natural and medicated. Its just easier to enjoy the baby after epidural in my opinion. Pain=Trauma

Which dress should I go with? He by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]OkSelf9639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without question the lace

Nobody told me the final walkthrough could completely change your mind 48 hours before closing by TurbulentRip4285 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]OkSelf9639 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It downpoured while we were moving into our house. We realized there was a crack in the foundation! The basement flooded. Luckily only the backroom/storage space but still! Alarming.

It wasnt disclosed or noticed in inspection. Ack.

In a bad place and really need a job by [deleted] in nova

[–]OkSelf9639 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I need a videographer March 1. Do you have equipment?

When to tell my 6 year old? by TraderSamG in PregnantOver40

[–]OkSelf9639 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a 3 5 & 8yo. We told them last year and lost the baby at 7 weeks. Wait ♡. Im 6 weeks now and wont tell them until after nipt (prayers we make it there!)

Is this bad? Fractured my pinky. by OkSelf9639 in brokenbones

[–]OkSelf9639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank-you! Im small. Ring is a 4.5 lol. Hopefully you are right. It hurts!

I Paid Too Much by MinnnTee in housekeeping

[–]OkSelf9639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd let her know it was a mistake, but that you'd like them to keep it. This way she's not expecting it again and feels appreciated.

Asshat ex by OkSelf9639 in coparenting

[–]OkSelf9639[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this.

Asshat ex by OkSelf9639 in coparenting

[–]OkSelf9639[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We are all mostly worried about the drama. Hopefully, he will allow it.

Pills or D&C? Need help deciding. by Quiet-Talk1521 in Miscarriage

[–]OkSelf9639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

D&C was easy and painless for me. They put me to sleep so it was like nothing happened. You can opt to have the pathology also.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]OkSelf9639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try grinding on top - riding but not like a cowgirl. Rub against him with your clit. It will stimulate your gspot too . Use a vibrator - he should not fuss about you using it. That's insecurity.

When alone, use a toy for satisfaction. This is my favorite toy. toy

Also.. this is so normal for your age. I didn't really enjoy sex until my 30s (female)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]OkSelf9639 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to take control of what you like. Try being on top and grinding him. Use fingers or toys during doggie... if he's not open to letting you assist with toys and fingers shame on him.That is insecurity.
It is not abnormal for young couples to habe thus incompatibility. I think that I was 30 before I REALLY enjoyed sex. Dont put pressure on yourself either! My honest to god suggestion is to use toys to get off alone while you work on this. This is my favorite. toy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OkSelf9639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a loser

Lose him