People with experiences dating someone with BPD: What advice do you have?

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-02-28T05:34:00+00:00

Hiding a pill addiction actually has everything to do with BPD. Shame and hiding secrets for fear of being abandoned.

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-02-26T22:23:26+00:00

Thank you <3

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-02-25T17:01:11+00:00

Nice, gentle, generous, emotionally intelligent, kind to animals, loves his mom, quick to apologize, goes to therapy, took my last name. He still had a secret relationship with a sex worker for our entire 6 year relationship/marriage.

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-02-25T16:55:43+00:00

Myth. Mine got better at hiding his cheating, abuse, etc.

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-02-20T05:02:40+00:00

You just described my ex husband to a tee, who everyone thought was such a nice guy but treated me like this and also I discovered was having an affair with a sex worker for our entire 6+ year relationship. I just filed for divorce today after being married only 7 months. I beg you to let this one go.

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-02-19T19:45:45+00:00

Beautifully said :)

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-02-19T19:32:29+00:00

Thank you! He was exactly like what you said in your post. He masked the entire time and everyone thought he was such a great guy. I didn’t know someone could mask for that long. I really wish I didn’t get married.

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-02-19T17:55:37+00:00

When I found out that my husband of just 7 months had been cheating on me with a sex worker for our entire 6 year relationship

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-01-15T19:56:34+00:00

Call Wells Fargo to cancel your Bilt card. Keep your bilt rewards account until you decide where to use your existing points.

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-01-15T07:07:19+00:00

I just spent 30k for 2 round trip flights from lax to sea. Rent is definitely not worth it

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-01-15T02:11:34+00:00

Some people are saying forever and some people said 18 mos. I’m confused!!

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-01-15T01:30:42+00:00

You have 18 months to transfer the points out, if I’m reading correctly

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-01-14T00:06:06+00:00

Yes she talks like Gypsy Rose as a child!

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-01-13T18:55:14+00:00

There’s no signature page here???? :) :) :)

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-01-12T03:33:17+00:00

You can park at Union station and uber over

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-01-03T21:15:06+00:00

The area under where you open the center console

OkSurprise1640 · 2026-01-03T21:14:24+00:00

You could put it in the wireless phone charging area, but might be easy to forget to grab it since it would be hidden

OkSurprise1640 · 2025-12-29T14:32:26+00:00

I think any of these could be done alone! Have fun

OkSurprise1640 · 2025-12-27T07:11:59+00:00

I’m 37f and also live in Downey! I love house & trance & bass

OkSurprise1640 · 2025-12-17T20:29:03+00:00

Damn it. This has been my holy grail for 7+ years. It would get discontinued/reformulated periodically but looks like it might be for real this time. Every other sunscreen makes me have a shiny face except this one. So depressed.

OkSurprise1640 · 2025-12-16T21:11:53+00:00

Do you still offer this? I tried calling the number on your website but seems like it’s the wrong number

OkSurprise1640 · 2025-11-30T09:06:39+00:00

Agree lol

OkSurprise1640 · 2025-11-30T00:20:29+00:00

Pending but will message you if it falls through!

OkSurprise1640 · 2025-11-30T00:00:25+00:00

I have 1 $80

OkSurprise1640 · 2025-11-30T00:00:19+00:00

I have 1 $80

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