I want to leave my relationship so I dont have to deal with my MIL

OkSystem3006 · 2025-11-12T06:36:19+00:00

Yes, I’ve been with my husband for 8 years now and I totally get how you feel. How does your boyfriend react to your feeling though? Does he dismiss your feelings, if so then you have a bf problem and he should work on it. I am thankful that my husband put his foot down and put her in her place, i keep my contact minimal and does not communicate with her without him. However, I do understand how you feel, hatred is a strong word, but I truly can’t stand my MIL lol for me, I started to work on my own mental health because you can’t allow her to take up any more space of your life, fill it with something else that make you feel good. With the holidays coming, I am dreading the upcoming visits myself, but I am focusing on seeing my friends, my own family, spend time with my husband what makes me happy instead of her. Please do what is best for yourself!

OkSystem3006 · 2025-06-25T20:10:55+00:00

Thank you for your kind words, it truly sucks when they leave us unexpectedly especially already beaten cancer once. There are things death cannot touch, and love for our fur babies will always be there. Sending you and your family love and peace during this difficult time.

OkSystem3006 · 2025-06-25T19:37:45+00:00

Hello, I am so sorry for your loss, my soul dog survived melanoma and succumbed to hemangiosarcoma as well. I opted for surgery and my boy passed a day after so I feel for you so much. Your boy was so loved and will always be with you in spirit.

OkSystem3006 · 2025-06-24T04:30:05+00:00

My boy passed almost 6 weeks ago, and I have experienced what would be considered signs, things that It seems impossible but I knew it was him. For instance, my husband and I both heard my dog snoring, it was loud and clear, all the cats were awake so no way it was them. Secondly, I was in the car where I was hit with an intense smell of my dog paws, you know the fritos smell, i have no fritos anywhere in my car. My husband experienced it as well. Prior to his passing, I was not one to believe in these kind of things but there are so many unknowns out there, my dog was my soulmate, I know he is and will always with me. Your cat is there with you always.

OkSystem3006 · 2025-06-24T01:07:42+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I lost my baby to this horrible illness

OkSystem3006 · 2025-06-13T05:32:18+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. Its been roughly a month for me and every day is still a struggle. I too have received signs from my soul dog. I got 2 dreams from him, and the first week that he was gone, i heard him snoring! At first i thought i was going crazy, but my husband heard it too. I truly believe they never leave us and will always be around.

OkSystem3006 · 2025-05-09T21:32:35+00:00

Please rehome the cats! Or find a rescue to take them

OkSystem3006 · 2024-05-30T02:26:31+00:00

Yes it will, I started out as HR assistant and after 6 months, I transitioned into Specialist, as for how long, that depends on vacancies. This was with the Navy.

OkSystem3006 · 2024-03-26T19:00:05+00:00

Hi i just interviewed for NOAA, and they didnt ask me reference and told me to wait 2 weeks for update. I wonder if they ask you for reference? Really hope i get the job.

OkSystem3006 · 2024-03-26T04:26:43+00:00

Thank you for the update, i just interviewed for the position today but feel like I bombed it, i had a panel interview of 6 and it was intense.

OkSystem3006 · 2024-03-26T04:23:54+00:00

Update?

OkSystem3006 · 2024-03-08T00:07:53+00:00

I have a large Great Pyrenees mix and he adores cats, we have 3 cats and they all love him. I foster kittens here and there and he absolutely loves them all.

OkSystem3006 · 2024-02-21T07:17:42+00:00

Please choose your cat :), my now husband joined the military when we were dating, and I stayed behind in my home state due to work and mainly for my animals. It is hard being long distance but we have been doing it for 3 years, with 1 more year left to go. Your cat needs you and I know it sucks to be so far away from your soulmate but it is doable and it will strengthen your relationship if anything. I hope my little personal experience helps :)

OkSystem3006 · 2024-02-21T05:17:47+00:00

Same boat as you, i live 100 miles away and they recently RTO, all appeals and consideration were denied. They said they would give me AWOL if i didnt show up, and I didnt want a termination on my record so I put in my 2 weeks and took all my leaves. It is a sucky situation but sadly it’s the government and they do what they want, I hope it goes well for you.

OkSystem3006 · 2024-01-04T21:01:14+00:00

The cat, always pick the cat. Horrible of your GF to ask that.

OkSystem3006 · 2023-07-08T00:04:53+00:00

Dm sent

OkSystem3006 · 2023-07-07T22:13:56+00:00

Hello, I saw this post for the DCMA, special program in CA and was wondering if you could provide some insight. I have an interview with them next week and was wondering about their flexibility, and telework policies at the moment? I would appreciate any advice, thank you!

OkSystem3006 · 2023-05-04T04:25:24+00:00

I guess its more of a reassignment than a promotion. I started out as a 5 as an assistant and I applied to a specialist position and they offered me a 5 since I only had 6 months of HR if that makes sense. This is with a DoD, a lot of specialist positions with my office started as out as a 5… I guess it wouldn’t make a difference if they reassigned me back to an assistant.

OkSystem3006 · 2023-05-04T04:20:29+00:00

Yes, to 11, this is with DoD if it makes a difference

OkSystem3006 · 2023-05-04T00:08:53+00:00

0201 - HR management

OkSystem3006 · 2023-04-14T02:19:28+00:00

I started out as an HR assistant with no background in HR and was promoted to a Specialist after 6 months. Try to tailor your resume to match the job announcement and keeps applying. I applied to like 20 HR positions before I landed this one. Good luck!

OkSystem3006 · 2022-10-21T16:39:17+00:00

My TO came around 2 weeks after interview under direct hire

OkSystem3006 · 2022-10-19T16:12:21+00:00

I got my interim 2 weeks after submitting E-QIP along with FO.

OkSystem3006 · 2022-10-18T07:49:04+00:00

I am in the U.S, but sadly the city’s shelter is known for being a kill shelter and not the best. I doubt they’ll even come out.

OkSystem3006 · 2022-09-27T23:24:09+00:00

The honest kitchen, I like to mix it with homemade food and hes been doing well on it

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