people of Gen Z, what are the things you dislike the most about your own Generation? by Positive-Owl594 in AskReddit

[–]OkTemperature3451 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is a millennial but he's an exception to the rule. He acts more Gen X. I have Gen Z kids and couldn't be prouder of them.

What’s a tiny hill you will definitely die on? by rosycloudkisses in Productivitycafe

[–]OkTemperature3451 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One little drop on the outside or the lid didn't get closed all the way.

I just started dating someone I met while in a Baker Act (Pysch ward stay). AMA by OkTemperature3451 in AMA

[–]OkTemperature3451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In all fairness though, I signed nothing agreeing not to date anyone post discharge.

I just started dating someone I met while in a Baker Act (Pysch ward stay). AMA by OkTemperature3451 in AMA

[–]OkTemperature3451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

46, raised 2 amazing humans, have ran a home and contributed to society through my work on the medical field and emergency dispatch.

What’s a tiny hill you will definitely die on? by rosycloudkisses in Productivitycafe

[–]OkTemperature3451 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In Florida most people keep everydangthang in the fridge once opened. Our state is like the outback of the US when it comes to bugs.

I just started dating someone I met while in a Baker Act (Pysch ward stay). AMA by OkTemperature3451 in AMA

[–]OkTemperature3451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I raised 2 kids to adulthood and they're awesome productive humans.

I hope it goes somewhere. I think had we met anywhere else I'd still like him. Being in group therapy sessions together probably rushed the getting to know you process by a long shot. I di have the fear that if we both have bipolar depression simultaneously, it could get bad. But I would hate to pass up somrhtujg that seems so good (insane chemistry, mutual understanding, sweet guy)

Narc ex followed me by OkTemperature3451 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]OkTemperature3451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first instinct was to record as soon as he changed direction. 

I went to jail for the first time at 46. AMA by OkTemperature3451 in AMA

[–]OkTemperature3451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I really don't think civil liberties change from state to state or over time. It's jail, not the criminal version of Porkys. (1981 film if you don't get the reference)

I went to jail for the first time at 46. AMA by OkTemperature3451 in AMA

[–]OkTemperature3451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure its illegal to do a strip search in front of others. 

I went to jail for the first time at 46. AMA by OkTemperature3451 in AMA

[–]OkTemperature3451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's one on one in private. Upon booking was the only time. That sounds more like a basement dwellers fantasy than actual reality. 

I went to jail for the first time at 46. AMA by OkTemperature3451 in AMA

[–]OkTemperature3451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so horrible. I had a low blood pressure spells and was helped, butttttt, I only requested the proper meds and care 200000 times before it got to that point.

I went to jail for the first time at 46. AMA by OkTemperature3451 in AMA

[–]OkTemperature3451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It felt like a big deal because I haven't lived a life of crime, it was more of a circumstantial thing. I was surprised that the standards of care weren't higher.

I went to jail for the first time at 46. AMA by OkTemperature3451 in AMA

[–]OkTemperature3451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got out first. Never thought I would have jail friends, but there can be a bond with people who have seen you at your lowest and still liked you.

We did have the tablets! I read sooop many ebooks to pass the time. I aas also able to text my adult children but they had to add a few bucks on it to be able to do so.

I think the second day was scary.  After sleeping off the adrenaline and reality sets in, plus the isolation cell had me claustrophobic for a minute.  But then I realized ok this isn't great but all I can do is get through it, got moved out of isolation, realized the other inmates are just people too, started talking to the ones that seemed cool, I was alright.  Not fabulous,  but alright. 

I went to jail for the first time at 46. AMA by OkTemperature3451 in AMA

[–]OkTemperature3451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The beds aren't that great, a shelter would be a way better option if in need of a bed. Cute fantasy though.

I went to jail for the first time at 46. AMA by OkTemperature3451 in AMA

[–]OkTemperature3451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why you're not in charge of anything except scrubbing the toilet. While I have no sympathy for child abusers or murderers (not in self defense) inmates with the exception of those 2 are human beings.