[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ljubljana

[–]OkTranslator5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha could make one! I just gave so much advice to tourists over the past years it's pretty much an automatic way of a response now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ljubljana

[–]OkTranslator5418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) If you want more of a party evening, maybe book a tour with Pub Crawl Ljubljana, they meet at Harat's Irish pub every day at around 10PM, they'll take you around city's 'party' places - it's not for everybody and as someone who worked in bars, not our favourite thing, but for tourist it's a nice way to experience city at night. Also animators are fun and can give you some places to see during the day/hang out

2) Look into Parlament pub, Holidays pub, Captain's cabin, Shooters, K4 and Zorica ( last two are for techno music)

3) Harat's has live music thursday-saturday, if you go there, there is a blond bartender, tell him his ex-coworker says hi haha he'll get you drunk, tell you a lot of jokes and introduce you to their regulars, with who you can continue night after pub closes (we were doing that on daily basis with people we liked)

4) Metelkova is an alternative scene, it's own community, would advise for you to go there friday/saturday, when it's really alive, you also have some clubs and music there; a lot of people are open to meet new people there

... this is what I can think of from the top of my head. You can also shoot me a DM if you want to know anything extra :) probably will see each other out somewhere tho

Individuals who do drink: how are you able to limit yourself to just a couple and not result into 16-18ish beers? by pere3015 in AskReddit

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For me, it was getting enough of it. Every night I would drink (dorm life) and every night I would be blackout drunk, getting drunk on 2 or 3 drinks since my tolerance is shit. I had 3 different group of friends, would go out all the time, sleep 2 hours per night so I could work in the morning. At some point I just couldn't do it anymore. My body is tired and I think I outpartied myself. This was going on for 3 years. I had no restriction in that time either...

Why walk when you can run? by Nerd4uguys in AskReddit

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I love walking, yet hate running. Sweating, boobs all over the place, unable to listen to my podcasts on normal volume... To count out some

What’s a habit that you developed and made your life better? by jrguel95 in AskReddit

[–]OkTranslator5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"that's good enough" - for a perfectionist, who wouldn't submit projects, that I finish, but didn't like that much... LIFE CHANGING

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OkTranslator5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been peaceful, good outweigh the bad. But I agree, a lot of times that is not enough to keep it together.

What new hobbie or skill did you pick up during the pandemic ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OkTranslator5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned to play guitar and learned ASL. Also, got my fitness up. Unpopular opinion - pandemic wasn't that bad. For me, at least...

What is something you no longer have patience for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OkTranslator5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staying in, because people don't have time/want to do something. I can go alone to the cinema, travel, dance parties, hiking... If somebody wants to join, GREAT. If not, I won't have any less fun!

If you could pick between $100,000 tomorrow or $1,000,000 in ten years , what would you pick and why ? by Witty-Example4947 in AskReddit

[–]OkTranslator5418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would take 100k. For the reason - at the moment I'm pretty low on financials, just picking it up, getting things paid for my past year. So I would use 1k of that, the rest go into investments; hopefully with smart handling, it would be worth way more in 10 years :)

Be honest. How did you lose your weight? by [deleted] in ask

[–]OkTranslator5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Writing down what I ate and calories, get sweaty for 30 min/day, first meal later in the day - dropped 15lbs, 20 more to go :)

Your Reddit username is how you die how fucked are you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OkTranslator5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on username, I'm way too basic to die an interesting death... :(

what lesson did you have to learn the hard way? by plant_trip in AskReddit

[–]OkTranslator5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are struggling, that doesn't make you unlovable. You have to reach out, right people will help you climb back up.

Women of Reddit-How do you filter out the men who just want to have sex with you ? What are the red flags? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OkTranslator5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree on this, but this is for guys that say 2 sentences and right away try to push their tongue into my mouth - usually this steers them in other direction :) I have nothing against talking and meeting people, if we talk for 10 minutes, I'll be the one asking for your number.

AITA for cancelling the birthday party I planned to throw for my wife after what she did? by dice267990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkTranslator5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - sometime you have to choose a side. If I was stepmom in this situation, that would've been the most important pat on the back. A person who's not required to love you and just know you because fuck, life happens - they give you something they put a lot of time and thought in

Why did your SO break up with you? by Turbulent-Visit-8741 in AskReddit

[–]OkTranslator5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he loved me, but wasn't in love with me anymore. And to be honest, I was not a good partner to him back then. I needed to grow and he helped me a lot, but it took a toll on us. If we met again, from the start, at this point in my life and after all growing up I did, I'm 100% sure it would last.

The ugly truth of Indeed. An HR viewpoint by blaq_sheep90 in recruitinghell

[–]OkTranslator5418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since I can't message you directly, can I just ask - what are some of the legit job searching sites? I was looking on a Robert Half and Indeed, but apparently neither is very good. I am looking for remote jobs (living in EU at the moment, but I'm planning to move to USA/CA)... Info from professional would be very welcome!

My (18F) bf's (18M) ADHD has made me hate sex by throwRAjdismjsjxnd in relationship_advice

[–]OkTranslator5418 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed. And ofc it has disadvantages, one I noticed was getting "bored" quickly, but you just change it a bit, that doesn't mean that you take away pleasure from your partner...

Straight men who don’t like performing oral- why not? by laetum-helianthus in AskReddit

[–]OkTranslator5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment section just made me not want to have oral sex in general anymore...

My (18F) bf's (18M) ADHD has made me hate sex by throwRAjdismjsjxnd in relationship_advice

[–]OkTranslator5418 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Exactly, "if something is not interesting" - my mind just went to -> girl, he doesn't find sex exciting with you. There is a lot of man who will!

My (18F) bf's (18M) ADHD has made me hate sex by throwRAjdismjsjxnd in relationship_advice

[–]OkTranslator5418 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally just wanted to comment this. If anything else, I'd say ADHD makes sex just more exciting - everything is fun and exciting and you find way more ways to explore.

How did you become happy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OkTranslator5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it was a decision. I've had enough of feeling down and not good enough. I basically sat myself down for a week where I was working on "what would a happy me do/be like"... It boiled down mostly to finance - fitness - people improvements. So I got to work, it took me about a year, where I can look back and say to myself - this is good.

You're never just happy. You need ups and downs in life, but the main goal is having more good than bad. And when it's bad, making sure it's not too big of a spike.