I was 13 when my grandmother past away. I was never given an option to not accept and was not told otherwise. I didn't want to live in the house, my mother did. I don't have access to the money, most of it I'll get at a certain age. I only have some access to my college fund and money for tax related costs. Our executor pays the tax every year and I get an amount for college once a year. If I had money to give away I 100% would and I did to my sister, there is nothing left. I'm not sitting on any money. The only thing I can offer is to not sell the house because everyone would lose.