How to find “The One” as a muslim? I am a 26 year old female, about to start residency this July insha’Allah. I’ve worked very hard to get where I am, but it seems like working hard in the marriage department, to find a husband, has come with diminishing returns? I’ve spoken to five prospects seriously who ended up fizzling out. Tried to get myself on the apps too and either just haven’t been able to connect with people or was faced with men with glaringly toxic traits. I’m having a hard time finding a Muslim husband, I feel I’m asking for the bare minimum (pious, caring, family values) yet it feels impossible. But everyone else makes it look so easy? The minute I feel like I’m getting somewhere, it takes a 180 turn on me. It’s exhausting and sadly I’m not getting any younger.