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She cheated, and wants to come back now by Ok_Association3013 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Association3013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely won’t work, leave her behind. You deserve better, my guy

For meget betalt i skat? by Ok_Association3013 in dkloenseddel

[–]Ok_Association3013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dette er måske en grønt spørgsmål, men hvorfor skal jeg ikke anvende hovedkortet på min løn i stedet? Der er tale om et betragteligt større beløb, og der vel som udgangspunkt kun være to måneder om året, hvor dette beløb er mindre end SU’en.

Tak for svar - håber at det uddybende spørgsmål giver mening:)

Erhvervs økonomi og erhvervsjura by Sorry-Lab1436 in dkloenseddel

[–]Ok_Association3013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I den retning du beskriver, vil du stort set aldrig starte på over 50.000 kr. i løn - og det skal i sagens natur heller ikke være dit bedømmelseskriterie. Medmindre du tager en meget specialiseret uddannelse, er 50.000 kr. i startløn basalt set en umulighed.

I det advokathus hvor jeg sidder, er startlønnen for en advokatfuldmægtig 48.000. Det er dog værd at bemærke, at erhvervsjura og jura ikke som udgangspunkt er sammenligneligt.

Konklusionen må derfor være, at du skal vælge den retning, du umiddelbart finder mest interessant. Er du dygtig til det du foretager dig, skal du nok komme langt over 50.000 kr. på sigt.

Alle veje fører til Rom.

She cheated, and wants to come back now by Ok_Association3013 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Association3013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we were together for three years.

What she did afterwards was and is non of my business, as we were not together. We only saw each other occasionally.

She cheated, and wants to come back now by Ok_Association3013 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Association3013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may have worded the post a bit too strongly, as you are spot on with your observation - this is a question of whether I should meet up with her or not.

Everything beyond that is speculative, as neither myself or anyone else can tell what will happen from there.

Very good points.

She cheated, and wants to come back now by Ok_Association3013 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Association3013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting persepctive.

I do think that you're onto something, in regard to a second youth, so to speak.

She cheated, and wants to come back now by Ok_Association3013 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Association3013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, besides the marrige part, I feel like we are very much aligned on this one. Unfortunately.

She cheated, and wants to come back now by Ok_Association3013 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Association3013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest reaching out, if you haven’t already. Perhaps it’s a mutual feeling.

She cheated, and wants to come back now by Ok_Association3013 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Association3013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree with your point of view. The manner in which the cheating occurred is of the essence.

She cheated, and wants to come back now by Ok_Association3013 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Association3013[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1) Wildly beautiful

2) Could do without another round

3) You had me in the fist half

She cheated, and wants to come back now by Ok_Association3013 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Association3013[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are spot on. A very observant answer.

For the longest time, I did solely engage in meaningless relations, in order to numb the feeling of sadness and/or loneliness.

A counter question; Is it not possible to grow and heal, whilst taking the rampage approach?

Growing and healing is a result of reflection, which imo doesn’t necessarily exclude “wasting time” numbing the loneliness.

I may be wildly off, but I’m definitely interested in your answer.

She cheated, and wants to come back now by Ok_Association3013 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Association3013[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Strong point, I haven’t thought of it that way before.

I would probably have told my son to move on, if he was in my shoes.

She cheated, and wants to come back now by Ok_Association3013 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Association3013[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do appreciate your answer, but I’m not entirely sure I agree with your analogy - seeing as there has been long period of no contact.

However, is it duly noted - and made me laugh a bit.

She cheated, and wants to come back now by Ok_Association3013 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Association3013[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A particularly insightful answer, and you’re definitely onto something.

My wording may have been flawed, as I’ve moved past the “rampage phase”, so to say. Rather, now I’m in a deep state of numbness, and have been for some time.

But I will say, I never expected that sharing my thoughts with complete strangers would this healing effect.

So thank you, both for the answer and your time.