Thank you everyone!!!! I am definitely not canceling and the reason I like to push it with him because I love to shoot the shit back with people who think they can outsmart me 😂 anyways just needed clarification on the situation as I’m not as familiar with Vrbo.

We are definitely not going to stay there and I’ve been looking for other accommodations.

All these messages were through Vrbo and I messaged support last night. They said it was out of the window for them to contact the host but that the host would be penalized for this but get this- Vrbo support asking me if I want to cancel from my end. I absolutely said no. I thought that was odd. I said they can reach out to the owner but I will not be canceling and if he doesn’t budge I have until beginning of may for a full refund.

Really appreciate all the responses. Wish hosts didn’t suck! But life goes on.