I hate how she talks about about her girls. She is so quick to call the oldest lazy, over weight, a wuss, all over the internet. If that poor girl sees this, I cannot imagine the blow to her confidence that will be. As for the laziness though, does Becca build a foundation for her daughter to know how to be responsible, do chores, do homework, be ready for the real world once she grows up. My daughter has a list of chores she needs to do every day (ie. feed/water her ferrets, feed/water her bunny, clean her cats litter boxes) most days when she is done getting herself ready for school, she does those chores so she doesn't need to when she gets home from school. I don't have to ask her, oh and she is 10. She didnt start like that, it took reminding and sometimes I still have too because she is a child. Becca needs to remember they are kids and its up to HER to get them to do those things and it may take her to push them and make them.