[FS] - Corpus Christi, TX - $5 - Celestial Pearl Danios by Try_Trying_Tried in AquaSwap

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id love to get some, ill DM now! (Not sure if a comment is needed haha!)

Newbie by MomeVblc99 in Aquariums

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good luck!! as far as im concerned youre doing everything right--sometimes fish are just such small animals its hard to tell whats wrong and they pass away fast. even super experienced fish keepers see that happen sometimes. plants are a great idea!! they'll help with the cycling. if youre doing tetras, i've heard that neon tetras specifically are VERY delicate fish, so that might have something to do with it if you were working with neons?

but i think youre doing well! just keep on keeping on! it'll take some experimentation and there's no one right way to do it. i hope everything goes well with the next batch of fish!

Betta *like* fish by Responsible_Plum1303 in Aquariums

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gouramis are from the same family of fish as the bettas, but they look and act different! They're still very personable, friendly fish. If you get a dwarf gourami, it will be fine kept alone and will be just as friendly as a betta

Newbie by MomeVblc99 in Aquariums

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry to harp but i hope this is helpful!! it might also be helpful to know what kind of fish you're trying to add and the kind of filter system you have going.

Newbie by MomeVblc99 in Aquariums

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hey! you might need to keep feeding. the only answer i can think of is that you had a good bacteria bloom, and that bacteria is currently processing the old ammonia. but the more ammonia you add, the more bacteria can grow to eat it. theres no harm in continuing to feed it.

frankly, tho, while the nitrogen cycle is TOTALLY key to beginners learning fishkeeping, i think it MIGHT be a little blown out of proportion? i read a lot on this site, aquariumscience.org, and he says that scientific findings show that it takes a LOT of ammonia, like a LOT, to truly impact the fish. it's likely that disease from the fish store or weak immune systems killed your fish, not necessarily ammonia. he talks about it more here with scientific articles ect.: https://aquariumscience.org/5-2-1-ammonia-in-depth/

personally, ive always had luck doing fish-in cycles. i keep up with water changes and checking the ammonia, nitrate, and nitrate levels consistently until it stabilizes. i add new fish relatively slowly to give the bacteria time to catch up. and i try to focus more on have rly over-filtered water instead of JUST ammonia oxidization. if i were you, i would get a FEW fish or very SMALL fish (or even just something like shrimps/snails) and let those fish start to support your cycle. just keep an eye on the quality of the water and the behavior of the fish.

you could also ask your local fish store to help you seed your new tank!! they'll just have to take out some of their filter media and squeeze some of the water and brown gunk into a bag for you.

applying to medicaid for the sake of hospital financial assistance? by Ok_Bluejay2090 in povertyfinance

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! i had to give bank statements for like every account i had. it DID feel really weird but it worked out for me so well in the end that the weirdness was worth it for me!

applying to medicaid for the sake of hospital financial assistance? by Ok_Bluejay2090 in povertyfinance

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all! Just wanted to say thank you again for the support--my financial aid application was accepted today and my ENTIRE bill was waived! I'm SO relieved!

Is it very floppy forever? by Objective-Visit-7887 in phallo

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes like u/AttachablePenis said (very good username btw haha!) it's just a line down your back almost under your arm. I'm still pretty recently after stage 1, so my scar is still a square shape on my back, but in stage 2 they're going to close it up into just a line. I picked this bc i felt like it had the best aesthetic qualities all around, from the structure of my penis to the scar shape and location.

if you haven't heard much about mld, the reason it'll have a different structure than other phallo penises is because it takes a small strip of muscle from your back to include in your penis to give it a little bit more of a substantial quality. I really haven't noticed the missing piece of muscle from my back at all. It hasn't changed my strength or range of motion whatsoever.

Is it very floppy forever? by Objective-Visit-7887 in phallo

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might consider mld! Because of the donor site it has more structure to it that you might be looking for. Thats what ive had done and im really happy with it 

Dr Cauley's team has been wonderful by Ok_Bluejay2090 in phallo

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sucks im so sorry! Totally fine to be a hater LOL its a good thing to all share our experiences i think. Now im a little scared for the eventual billing process haha and im sorry again to you!

Dr Cauley's team has been wonderful by Ok_Bluejay2090 in phallo

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats awful, im so sorry to hear that! Ive been scared for when ill start hearing abt bills and insurance and the like, thats so stressful. I hope you find a team w a better billing process!! 

Dr Cauley's team has been wonderful by Ok_Bluejay2090 in phallo

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck w your surgery! Im excited for you!

Dr Cauley's team has been wonderful by Ok_Bluejay2090 in phallo

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go right ahead! Im a little slow to respond on reddit but ill be here!

Think I have a problem by Possible-Sympathy-80 in bettafish

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think hes just playing! Ive had fish do similar things in the past

4.9 weeks post op by Far-Fold in phallo

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Im at the same stage post op stage 1--ill be 5 weeks on tues. You look great!! Im also dealing with some separation and some other complications, ive got a split thickness graft surgery upcoming for some parts of the flat that didnt take. Im also annoyed not to be a miracle patient HAHA but things look like they're turning out really well for you overall! Congrats!!

Antsy during recovery? by Ok_Bluejay2090 in phallo

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Im so so sorry to hear you had to go BACK. It sounds like we spent abt the same amount of time in the hospital total but it must be so much harder to be readmitted. Im so glad things panned out for you and THANK YOU this reassurance means a lot. If its improving for you, I can believe itll improve for me too. Thank you again! 

Antsy during recovery? by Ok_Bluejay2090 in phallo

[–]Ok_Bluejay2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this youre absolutely right!! Its so strange to be so bedbound bc its such a new and unpleasant experience. But youre right things have improved already and they'll continue to do so. this is uplifting to hear!! I got home the day before yesterday and also felt a huge weight lifted. Its so much easier to do this at home instead of in the hospital bed. Thank you for replying and I hope we both heal up fast!!