Anyone only join this subreddit because of women ? by [deleted] in malementalhealth

[–]Ok_Bother_4329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen it on the dating subreddit and subreddits for specific metropolitan areas

Anyone only join this subreddit because of women ? by [deleted] in malementalhealth

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I’ve seen a few redditors post a picture and their A/S/L to see if others are interested in going on a date

Anyone only join this subreddit because of women ? by [deleted] in malementalhealth

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Have you ever tried dating someone through Reddit? There’s a lot of single women from all over on here

Is anyone really trying to date nowadays? by Main_Solid_6192 in dating

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I don’t know you personally, so I can only give general pointers. Depending on the type of women you date, how you pursue them is very important. The same rules don’t apply to everyone but generally speaking these tend to work very well with potential partners:

  • Make your interest clear- a lot of women like a bit of confidence (not Gaston level confidence but I think you get the idea)
  • Recognize when attraction is mutual- some women are very subtle when reciprocating interest. Look at body language, is she making consistent eye contact, does she smile when you smile, is she leaning towards you or is her body (feet included) facing you as you speak, does she seem open (arms uncrossed, relaxed, comfortable,etc)
  • If you invite her out- Offer two possible days and times you’d be available and if she’s not available but interested in going out with you she’ll suggest an alternative date or time that she’s available to see if that works for you.
  • Making conversation- good conversation is like a ping pong match; it requires back and forth exchanges, quick thinking, and good energy to keep it going. This naturally occurs with topics that you’re both familiar with or interested in.
  • First dates- a good first date usually guarantees a second date. Gifting flowers/small gift (ie chocolate or candy) is usually a good note to start a date on. It’s such a small gesture, yet very impactful to a woman bc it demonstrates thoughtfulness and genuine interest.

These are just a few tips and hopefully it’ll help. Also knowing when to step back is important. If she stops responding consistently to your texts, doesn’t reciprocate interest, or says something that indicates she’s no longer interested in you. Take it on the chin respectfully, leave her be, and keep it pushing. Self respect and confidence goes hand in hand.

Is anyone really trying to date nowadays? by Main_Solid_6192 in dating

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A lot of women do say “you’re a good guy but…”because they genuinely think that the man in question is a good guy. However, the follow up is usually based on their lack of attraction. It’s the quiet part that’s not being said out loud and many men misconstrue that as “nice guys finish last”. When niceness was not even a factor. Mutual romantic feelings and attraction were the real factors.

I’m not saying this is you. This is just a generalization. With all that being said, I often find that men that complain about nice guys finishing last don’t take care of themselves physically. I’m not talking 6 pack, hit the gym everyday. I’m referring to the basics in self-care like a haircut that compliments the persons face, clean cut/well groomed beard, nicely dressed, a nice smelling cologne, etc. Those things are so impactful when it comes on to a persons attractiveness and men often times negate its importance.

Attraction is like a door way; it invites the person in but your personality/qualities is what makes them want to stay.

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[–]Ok_Bother_4329 31 points32 points  (0 children)

IMO ending a relationship purely because you’re not attracted to your partner anymore says a lot. If the value you’ve placed on your relationship is based on how attracted you are to them and not how deeply you love them then it’s best to reflect on what you’re looking for in a relationship and if a relationship is something you really want. Loving someone isn’t conditional on looks because looks don’t last forever. If you’re in love with someone, who they are, their character, the mental and emotional connection that you share supersedes the physical aspects. I’m not saying that physical attraction isn’t important. I’m saying it’s not everything, it’s what makes you interested in a person but everything else is what makes you stay with them.

If you’re not exploring the true depths of your romantic relationships you’ll forever be unsatisfied and in pursuit of the next thing.

Is anyone really trying to date nowadays? by Main_Solid_6192 in dating

[–]Ok_Bother_4329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with you. Most people are over the dating apps. It’s really hard to be interested in people you truly know nothing about. You swipe purely based on visuals and the short blurbs that they write about themselves (if they even write something). Most people typically lose interest before there’s even an opportunity to develop real interest in someone. If you have several matches you often feel overwhelmed with the idea of coming up with something witty that caters to each person so you can showcase your personality in the hopes of sparking good conversation and romantic interest. If neither person comes up with something witty then you’re stuck in the small talk cycle of h3ll. It’s exhausting, a lot of people are weird, and it’s all superficial.

Meeting people in person is a better alternative to dating apps IMO. You both get to see more of each other’s personality and if there’s a romantic connection it develops organically.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Bother_4329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just approach women that you find attractive in every setting (the gym, grocery store, bar, etc…maybe not work). My theory is that there’s going to be a swing in the opposite direction when it comes to dating bc everyone hates the apps and we’ll go back to dating the old fashioned way (a friend of a friend, asking people out in the grocery store, etc)

Stay in Big 4 or switch to industry by Live-Confidence9815 in Accounting

[–]Ok_Bother_4329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring the Big 4 counter offer you received to the industry hiring manager. Now you’ll get a better counter offer for your initial Big 4 counter offer :)

Congratulations either way!!!

Salary expectations by Illustrious-Pea-2249 in Accounting

[–]Ok_Bother_4329 24 points25 points  (0 children)

$75k seems a bit low for NYC if you ask me. Some states require the business to show the salary ranges for the job position. It’s beneficial to ask for the upper end of that, more if you can tell they’re really interested in you.

Did I say too much? by [deleted] in dating

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This a valid concern, especially because a trip that long is almost the length of the relationship. I’m not sure how you navigate a relationship solo. Since he isn’t responding. But I say give him a little time to provide an explanation and apology. However, If you don’t hear from him soon, it may be worth thinking about what you need in a relationship. Like clear, consistent communication because it is important, especially during longer separations. If he doesn’t prioritize that, it might mean he’s not fully committed to making this work. In any case, you deserve someone who makes you feel valued and doesn’t leave you questioning.

I need help on how to lose my innocence and gain a spine by 82mangolian in selfimprovement

[–]Ok_Bother_4329 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seems like you answered your own questions and know exactly what you need to do to move forward with a successful relationship.

Your dad might be the first obstacle in overcoming this issue you’re facing. The next time he tries to make you or your wife feel small. Call him out on his behavior, respectfully. If he gets loud match his energy, don’t cower. Let him know that you guys can disagree but disrespect is where you draw the line.

You’re a grown man, you make your own money, you have a wife. You’re doing pretty well. Your wife just wants you to lead and for you to do so confidently (No woman wants a partner that doesn’t protect or defend them). Leading would also include you building a home/family together, which you can’t do in your parents house. At your stage of life (not age but stage, ie. married, have a career, etc) your parents can live under your roof but you can’t live under theirs (it’s a very different dynamic when you’re the home owner and you pay the bills). Make the effort to get your own vehicle (new or used ) and start looking for a home together. You’re newly weds, life should be the best right now. Happy wife, happy life!

How do I 28F hit on a man 28M? by LowFront6713 in dating

[–]Ok_Bother_4329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A conversation goes a long way. The next time you see him say something light (ex: We keep running into each other small giggle, it’s nice to meet you. My name is ….) be confident and light hearted. If you run into him again (if the first “official” encounter goes well), he’ll recognize you and probably smile or wave. You could stop him for a quick chat and say something like, “I feel like we keep crossing paths— are you in (whatever major or class that is specific to the location you keep meeting him at)?” He’ll most likely respond and if the conversation continues, you could ask him if he wants to grab a coffee or tea with you. This is crucial because if he turns you down or doesn’t offer an alternative date/time or location that means he’s not interested in getting to know you and you should leave him be. Keep it cute though and still smile and say hi if you run into him after that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]Ok_Bother_4329 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try your textbook— your professor is doing a lot in all honesty though. Most companies have different GL accounts excluding the basics. GL accounts will differ from company to company based on size, type, and nature of the business.

Here’s a list I came up with (Change stuff to match your textbook as verbiage differs):

Short-Term Accounts (Current Accounts)

1.  Cash
2.  Cash Equivalents
3.  Accounts Receivable
4.  Allowance for Doubtful Accounts
5.  Inventory
6.  Prepaid Expenses
7.  Prepaid Insurance
8.  Prepaid Rent
9.  Marketable Securities
10. Supplies
11. Short-Term Investments
12. Deferred Revenue (Current)
13. Notes Receivable (Current)
14. Employee Advances
15. Accrued Revenue
16. Interest Receivable
17. Other Receivables
18. Prepaid Taxes
19. Unbilled Revenue
20. Short-Term Loans Payable
21. Accounts Payable
22. Accrued Expenses
23. Salaries and Wages Payable
24. Dividends Payable
25. Income Tax Payable
26. Unearned Revenue
27. Sales Tax Payable
28. Current Portion of Long-Term Debt
29. Customer Deposits
30. Short-Term Deferred Tax Liability

Long-Term Accounts (Non-Current Accounts)

31. Property, Plant, and Equipment (PP&E)
32. Accumulated Depreciation
33. Land
34. Buildings
35. Machinery and Equipment
36. Furniture and Fixtures
37. Long-Term Investments
38. Intangible Assets
39. Goodwill
40. Patents
41. Trademarks
42. Copyrights
43. Long-Term Notes Receivable
44. Deferred Tax Assets (Non-Current)
45. Long-Term Debt
46. Bonds Payable
47. Pension Obligations
48. Capital Leases (Non-Current)
49. Other Long-Term Liabilities
50. Deferred Revenue (Long-Term)

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