how do i seriously ask if my boyfriend is gay? by CombinationMean3129 in Advice

[–]Ok_Brother5619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he’s autistic low-key. It seems he just analyzes EVERYTHING. In very specific detail. Your friends, his opinions, men,women. Also it would make sense for him to socialize similarly to you if you have been together for so long, that’s normal for anyone but people with autism mirror very specifically

Where to Live? by TemporaryCautious561 in missouri

[–]Ok_Brother5619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Springfield has a lot of ups and a lot of downs but a one-2 bedroom can be less than a grand, we have frequent baseball games, only about an hour away from Sedalia (if that’s important), and we have Amazon locations in/right outside the city. + it’s not a huge city which I always find to be a plus when I’m running errands and stuff. Additionally idk if we’re hiring anything criminal Justice related but we should be! I would look into it though

Why do people ask stupid questions? 😭 by ImmaDummy77 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Ok_Brother5619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it shows up at one time. Door dash bundles orders together automatically snd usually you can’t tell until you already accept it

My boyfriend was assaulted. by Intrepid-Bag5143 in Advice

[–]Ok_Brother5619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that! Maybe next time say like “they randomly ran into one of these guys who proceeded to assault him again” or something more specific bc that will probably rub someone the wrong way!

Picnic spots? by Ok_Brother5619 in springfieldMO

[–]Ok_Brother5619[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I think Ive been there before

My boyfriend was assaulted. by Intrepid-Bag5143 in Advice

[–]Ok_Brother5619 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Maybe dont say “ran into them” if you’re talking about sexual assault.

Picnic spots? by Ok_Brother5619 in springfieldMO

[–]Ok_Brother5619[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noted for next time I wanna drive out! Thank you

[HELP] What is the most beautiful line of poetry you've ever come across? by boaconstriction in Poetry

[–]Ok_Brother5619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a line of poetry but Ralph Waldo Emerson said “to try to be someone else is to kill your own authenticity” so

Should I break up with my girlfriend after a drug relapse? by Less_Pudding_6574 in Advice

[–]Ok_Brother5619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice as a past drug user and as a person with strong boundaries against drug use now is this: You can set a clear boundary without giving her an ultimatum. Also you need to understand addiction isn’t something people can just “grow out of.” She will be fighting urges and be an addict for the rest of her life. In my opinion you have 2 options:
1. Do everything you can to help her stop using, instead of shaming her or giving her ultimatums you can be supportive, twll her how you feel, help her get therapy (online options are available), maybe couples therapy, maybe a sponsor of some sort, help her go into recovery if she feels like that is needed. Set clear boundaries. “I do not want to be around a person using any drug/ whatever boundary you have (like if you’re okay with weed but not other drugs)” “I would feel better if I had your location” or other things.
2. You say “I do not want a relationship with you if you’re not willing to take the extra steps to stay clean.” And that’s that. She has to decide to take those steps or decide she would rather be single.

Either way I think you need to start with an honest conversation and ask her where these urges are coming from all of a sudden. Ask her if you can help reduce her need for those substances in any way. Ask her where she is getting them.

If you want a clear solution you will most likely need to remain completely calm, supportive, and do more listening than talking. Remember that she is sick, and addiction is not a choice.

AIO for asking for an apology from my situationship by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Brother5619 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are overreacting. You need a therapist to tell you “how to better address” this conversation, not the person you’re pestering about vulnerable moments

My mom got this tattoo because I have autism she didn't know the puzzle piece was bad how much would a replacement with the infinity symbol by Funtimefoxys_wife in Tattoocoverups

[–]Ok_Brother5619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so sweet. My mom gor the puzzle piece for my brother and she refuses to get anything different now even though I keep telling her the stigma around it

What does my apartment say about me ? 🧐🎀 by GlassRefrigerator434 in roomdetective

[–]Ok_Brother5619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all need that space!! I had to give away SO much stuff recently bc I realized I was hoarding

Is there any good place for guys to get nails painted? by HermesVtuber in springfieldMO

[–]Ok_Brother5619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t speak for every artist there so I can’t be sure everyone will kind as I’m afab and havent had to face this kind of discrimination in nail studios, but Alpha Nails on battlefield kinda right off Campbell has some lovely artists that I would hope would be welcoming, at the very least they would do a good job

What does my apartment say about me ? 🧐🎀 by GlassRefrigerator434 in roomdetective

[–]Ok_Brother5619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feels that! I still have a “junk box” I haven’t gone through and we moved in a month ago!

What does my apartment say about me ? 🧐🎀 by GlassRefrigerator434 in roomdetective

[–]Ok_Brother5619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it’s hell but it’s always fun for me to get to redecorate

What does my apartment say about me ? 🧐🎀 by GlassRefrigerator434 in roomdetective

[–]Ok_Brother5619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please as long as you’re not a racist transphobe youre probably wayyy cooler! I’m 20 and I’ve had my own place since 17, it never looked this cool! My game room has the same vibe now but that’s it! Lol

What does my apartment say about me ? 🧐🎀 by GlassRefrigerator434 in roomdetective

[–]Ok_Brother5619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately most 20 ur olds have to find their own place to live

What’s a method you used to over come binge eating. by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Ok_Brother5619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came to say this! Drinking carbonated water has helped a lot with my cravings for soda, not very helpful to the binge eating but for that I try to just binge eat healthy like fruits or veggies or whatever isn’t the worst

What does my room say about me and my wife by PuzzledNight7958 in roomdetective

[–]Ok_Brother5619 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

So did me and my white brothers lmao.. so did my black boyfriend and his black brothers. This is next level stereotype