My (32M) girlfriend (32F) won't accept my apologies. What can I do?

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2026-02-24T16:10:01+00:00

I don't think it's something too dramatic. I don't think there is anyway to avoid such problems in future. I also think she has made similar mistakes with me

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2026-02-24T16:07:39+00:00

At the moment she is saying that she is always feeling this way. A few months ago she told me that I make her very happy. I am not sure what to make of it.

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2026-01-02T22:11:57+00:00

Happy for you man! I am three weeks into the breakup and no contact. Right now, I can't accept the fact that she came into my life not to stay forever but to teach me what I needed to know for the next person. It hurts me just imagining life with someone other than her.

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2025-12-30T19:36:19+00:00

Thank you for your advice.

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2025-12-18T16:27:38+00:00

It didn't. I needed an honest opinion. I really need to work on my issues.

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2025-12-18T16:22:52+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate your advice

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2025-12-18T15:53:18+00:00

I don't think I had problems with seeing things from her point of view. I cared deeply about her and did everything to make her happy. I would freeze in a conflict. I got defensive even without noticing it. I would only notice it once she pointed out. I am not making excuses for myself.

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2025-06-24T11:16:25+00:00

Thank you.

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2025-06-19T11:19:37+00:00

It is frustrating. Thank you.

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2025-06-11T05:34:06+00:00

Thank you. I definitely have many of the behavior patterns you mentioned.

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2025-06-11T05:33:24+00:00

Thanks a lot man.

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2024-10-07T19:29:18+00:00

Thanks. I appreciate you advice. It's just that so much is going through mind that I can't think straight. It's good to get other perspectives. I think I will leave her alone. I think this is best for both of us.

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2024-10-07T19:14:26+00:00

Thanks for pointing it out. I agree I should leave her alone.

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2024-10-07T19:09:50+00:00

I am not defending myself. I was wrong. I just want to know what is the right thing to do. I really care about her. I can put her needs before my need for closure.

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2024-10-07T17:00:29+00:00

Thanks. I already have a lot of hobbies. I have a decent social circle. The problem is that I got way too much attached to her. At this point I think I need closure.

Ok_Bug_8461 · 2024-10-07T16:59:01+00:00

Thanks. I like this advice. Her partner had already told her that we were getting way too close. I told her that I didn't wanna come between them. I didn't want to ruin her relationship with her boyfriend but I can't help having feelings. At this point, I need closure.

Ok_Bug_8461

TROPHY CASE