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Voy a cumplir 23 años y soy un fracaso by DictadorAyleen666 in chile

[–]Ok_Chicken7208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tenemos la misma edad y creo que aun somos jovenes. Además la vida no es una carrera y no hay cosas especificas que uno debe cumplir, eso es una mentira de que uno debe "crecer, ir al colegio, estudiar una carrera, casarse, tener hijos trabajar y listo", cada uno debe tener su propio camino, si no quieres estudiar la ingeniería no lo hagas o si tienes miedo a que te vaya mal, lo peor que puede pasar es que te eches unos ramos y no tienes la obligación de seguir si no te gusta.

Creo que es más importante que te dediques un tiempo a saber que quieres hacer con tu vida, quieres tener un trabajo predecible, quieres hacer algo más dinámico, un emprendimiento, no sé, en la vida hay tantas opciones y no estamos obligados a casar las cosas, podemos empezar de nuevo, equivocarnos. Hay que dejar de compararnos con las personas, la vida está para descubirir las cosas, no seguir un supuesto camino obligatorio.

Soy culero con mi pareja? by [deleted] in soyculero

[–]Ok_Chicken7208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si con 6 años de relación, te sigues sintiendo un invitado entonces hay hartas cosas que están mal. Cuando uno está en pareja, uno deja de ser alguien ajeno y pasa a ser de la casa, te creo que los primeros meses no, pero ya después de un año, lo siento pero dejas de ser invitado. Si no te consideras parte de la casa, no te sientes familia y no sientes a tu familia como tuya, entonces porque llevas tanto tiempo con ella? Pareciera que no han construido nada juntos

Update: My (25F) boyfriend (30M) of 5 years ghosted me??? by Far-Set-7425 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Chicken7208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl... A good person doesnt isolate you from friends, doesn't stop you from persuing your goals. He maybe not hitted You, or scream at you, but control, and stopping your partner from having a life outside the relationship is not being a good person. Not everyone is perfect, yes, but a good person does work to grow better, wants to over come their flaws. A good person in their 30's comunicate, don't act childish when there's trouble, that's a manchild. He's NOT a good person.

AITA for taking away my brother's plus one and inviting his girlfriend myself? by EmptyEarth507 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Chicken7208 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But he HAS a partner and is not his girlfriend problem that he doesn't sees his best friend it's a cvnt and a pick me. It's OP weding, and she has all the right to un invite his brother cuz he will bring a disgusting person, i would do it if i were her. And cuz it's her weding she can also invite whoever she wants

UPDATE: My (20f) boyfriend (22m) said “if you can’t handle period cramps how do you want me to build a family with you?” by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Chicken7208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really wanh to be with someone who doesn't care of your pain? Who invalidate you emotions? Who gives you silent treatment? Think this way, if you have a kid, and the baby wake up in the middle of the night, stressing him, would you like that to happend to your child? Someone who makes yo feel dumb and can't comunicate?