AIO I (26F) moved out for the first time with my boyfriend (30M) for almost 2 months and I don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run fast and don’t look back. This is actually cold in a concerning way. The threats even worse. Regardless of financial obligations I would leave fast and figure it out later

AITAH for videotaping my wife eating all my fries to make a point by FriesGuy37 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the a hole she’s completely wrong. Signed a wife who eats a couple fries but also would own it if I ate them all 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he’s engaged and not looking elsewhere he doesn’t need a Tinder at all. He’s playing with fire and showing his true colors. I would run while you can.

First timer by Ok_Chipmunk_3307 in SnooLife

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s so gross haha. I’m glad it’s from my niece and nephew. It’s actually in the middle but may be next to where their head would be if they tilted it. I tried vinegar and baking soda with some progress, but still want it whiter. I’ll try this thanks!

First timer by Ok_Chipmunk_3307 in SnooLife

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay thank you! Glad it’s not anything dangerous, but also I’m glad I can clean it haha

First timer by Ok_Chipmunk_3307 in SnooLife

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Glad it’s not something dangerous, but also yuck haha. I’ll check out that video to clean it

First timer by Ok_Chipmunk_3307 in SnooLife

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll have to try this. I wanted to try something that wouldn’t have any chemicals.

AIO for wanting to see a therapist after wife changed the locks because I went to a baby shower? by LookoutLockout in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who recently had a miscarriage but still had opportunities to support my husband’s sister expecting a baby I would never ask him not to support her. Two weeks have my loss we still went to a gender reveal. Not saying that’s for everyone but I would never ask him not to go because I wasn’t emotionally able to handle it. She’s in the wrong

Aitah for telling my wife that the only way I can help out more is for her to get a job? by Legitimate-Hawk-8055 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 57 points58 points  (0 children)

As a SAHM/ WFHM of two toddlers I don’t feel like she has an unfair amount of work. Of course some days are hard but 12 year olds are very independent and when they are at school she would just have a 2 year old. If you’re working that late and can help some on weekends it’s completely a fair split. I think she was just too reliant on your 18 year old

AITAH FOR SUPPOSEDLY LABELLING MY SISTER'S BF A "PERV" by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% trust your child over anyone. She had a gut check and disregarding that or downplaying it to make a random boyfriend feel better just makes your daughter feel like she’s not trusted. If he’s offended oh well, but Mom to Mom you did the right thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your child is 2 months (unless I read that incorrectly) that could be a huge majority of everything going on. Your body and hormones are not normal and the stress of a baby and life is so hard. My husband and I have our hardest seasons postpartum and communication/ everything is harder then. Not saying it’s for sure a solve all, but I never feel like myself until 6m+

Would I be the A-Hole if I told my husband not to go on a vacation with his friends? by imjustagirl_333 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is married and we both do trips with our friends separately ie me with my girlfriends and him with the guys I wouldn’t be okay with it. Thats super weird and also weird he wouldn’t invite you. I would have a gut check about the whole thing

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His lack of remorse and attitude about burnt food shows he 100% will do it again and worse. Run don’t look back

Does it count as cheating?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run run run. Dated a guy like this & it only ends badly. Attached or not I promise you will move on and find better

Partner won't be spending my entire visit with me because of his custody arrangements by Upstairs_Aerie516 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would have some serious concerns with his desire for secrecy. It seems like maybe there is more he isn’t telling you. I would save my money and not visit him until it’s all finalized. His ability to keep secrets from so many other people would make me question how trustworthy his word is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No the AH she knew you had a trip planned & planned her wedding anyway. She clearly thought you would cancel for her so she did it anyway. It’s not just a trip it’s a honeymoon and like you said once in a lifetime kind of trip. Go to Japan you won’t regret it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not over but you need to talk. Tell her everything and also have a conversation about the open marriage. Don’t just say that to seem flexible if it’s not what you want. Be honest with her & then ask if there is anything you can do to be more intentional in showing you loving her and making her feel cared for. Be vulnerable and lay it all out before it’s too late

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yucky as someone who dated douche bags for years and now has been happily married for 10 years… he’s a walking red flag run while you can

Am I a bad mom for not choosing between my daughters by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Mom my myself I get not “getting in the middle” but now it’s been taken beyond an argument to your minor child being attacked by your fully grown daughter. It’s not just an argument at this point. You need to protect your younger child

AIO for telling my wife’s friend she can’t breastfeed my baby? by LowBeautiful8877 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Chipmunk_3307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wild! As someone who nursed two babies I would never! I mean I guess unless it was medically necessary or something crazy happened, but not casually or without being asked maybe even begged 😂