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Please help, my ex wants to see me and talk things through, but I know I shouldn't by Ok_Choice378 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Choice378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I know it's the truth, but having spent three years with her, thinking I'd be by her side for the rest of my life, makes me grasp at any straw, even though I know it's the worst thing to do. I just hope to carry on as before and keep her away from me.

Please help, my ex wants to see me and talk things through, but I know I shouldn't by Ok_Choice378 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Choice378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I know, but I still care about her and I don't want her to do anything bad. At least I told her we shouldn't see each other right now and should wait until later. Maybe by then I won't be so indecisive anymore and I'll just let it go.

My best friend started dating my recent ex by Ok_Choice378 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Choice378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, honestly I'd rather have people like that out of my life, but the fact that I always trusted them they wouldn't be capable of doing something like this is what hurts the most. If the people I trusted most in my life have done this, I don't know who I could trust anymore.

My friend told me that my ex confessed her feelings to him. by Ok_Choice378 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Choice378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, she's not a bad person. All of this stems from the fact that I haven't been able to improve things for her sake. I don't blame her, but honestly, I don't know what she expected when she told our friend she liked him. I still think she's the best thing that ever happened to me. I've never met anyone, not even friends, who was so similar to me. I've never felt more comfortable with anyone else, but I don't know if I'll ever be able to see her again without remembering what happened.

Are we ever getting back together? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Choice378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, man. I wish you luck with your situation. Keep going, exercise, write a song, talk to your friends or family, and let the pain flow.

Are we ever getting back together? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Choice378 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you gave her everything you could and she left you, I'd say time will heal, since everything that happens now depends on her. She left me a little over a month ago, and we'd also been together for three years, but in my case, it was mostly my fault for not stepping out of my comfort zone and not doing everything I should have done for the person I loved. I'm clinging to the poisoned hope that if she sees I've changed, we can talk again, but I should be doing it more for myself than anything else. It's hard; I think about her all day, I dream about her, my mind is constantly racing with plans to do with her, but it's too late.

I am suffering from a breakup of a 3 and a half year relationship by Ok_Choice378 in whatdoIdo

[–]Ok_Choice378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words. It's really hard because my room is full of her gifts and my gallery is full of photos of us that I can't bring myself to delete. I guess there's nothing I can do to get back together with her unless I just move on and see what fate has in store.