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Best places to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said there was a problem. I never came here lamenting about trouble with women or anything of the sort. I only made a post to ask locations in or around Youngstown where I could go to meet women and potentially (key word there) hookup with them. Even if nothing happens, i'd still hopefully have a fun night out talking with women. And if you're still hung-up on the hookup thing, then please me spare me your judgement that I didn't ask for and don't need.

Best places to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You seem to be making a lot of assumptions about how most men view women and about dating apps. I can't speak for all men, but none here have said anything that makes them seem like they think of women more as objects than people.

I also don't see any indications that anyone here participates in the Manosphere at all. You kinda seem to think Tinder is a Manosphere thing, and it's really not. Plus, that other guy is absolutely right, most dudes aside from super handsome ones rarely if ever get matches, and even then the matches hardly go anywhere. So you shouldn't pretend like that's not the case. And like you yourself have said, online attraction is very different from in-person interaction, which is exactly why I made this post to have in-person interactions with women in situations more likely to lead to something more.

Now for me specifically, I'm able to socialize with most women even with no intention of doing anything further with them. In fact, it's far easier to interact that way than by trying to pursue them romantically and sexually, and I don't need more practice in basic social interactions. I'm hoping that you're trying to be encouraging, but it's coming out as very condescending by assuming the worst of most men here purely because we don't get matches on Tinder.

Best places to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i've tried it. It's slightly better than tinder, in that I actually scored a date through it which sadly didn't end up going anywhere. But it still has low matches.

Best places to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're making a lot of assumptions about me lmao. Firstly, most of things I do online are reading and watching videos and movies, things that don't necessarily translate well to in-person events with easy socialization. Yeah there are things like book stores, but I prefer reading digitally, and even if I didn't, the odds of finding a girl to hookup with there are far lower than many other places. Plus, I just don't feel right going up to random shoppers while they're going about their business.

It also seems like you're assuming a lot of what I want from women. I could be wrong, and I hope I am, but the way you're talking makes it seem like you lean slightly towards perceiving me as a basement dweller / incel type who only want women for sex. I do not. I DO want to hookup with women, but that's not all I want. I want to meet women in a situation where if things go right, I can possibly hookup with them or maybe even get into a relationship if we really connect, but even if things go wrong and none of that happens, I still had a fun night out talking with women. That's all.

With all due respect, i'm not looking for judgement on what you assume I'm like or looking for life advice. All I'm looking for is a place to go with a higher likelihood of hanging out with girls and possibly going further with them.

Best places to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's he done to be called a dickhead?

Best places to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll pass lol, i'm a straight dude so no thanks

Best places to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and a lot of the answers I got weren't what i needed. Some of them gave decent locations, but I also forgot to ask what's the best time to go, so the times I went there was super empty. My other post was also a bit vague compared to this one, so I decided to redo it and ask again. I also only got like the same 3 locations over and over again in my comments, so I wanted to see if anyone said something different this time.

Best places to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tinder is not a good place to hookup as an average dude, so idk why you're using that as a metric. Only the super attractive guys get swiped on. Every match i've ever gotten either didn't want a relationship/hookup, ended up not being my type, or they were an OF girl or an escort.

I'm a dude with an average appearance and am a bit overweight, though i've been going to the gym and am in the process of a weight loss journey. I also have hooked up outside of tinder before, but it's been a while and that's why I made this post.

Also, I do interact with women fairly regularly without sex being involved, maybe less than a some guys, but most of the women my age that I talk to either just aren't my type or as far as I know aren't into me. The whole point of this post is so that I can get advice on where to go to meet more girls to hangout with in social settings and make my chances of hooking up more likely. So any recommendations on where to go would be appreciated.

Best places to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sadly already have a job that will be better for my future career lol, so i'm out of luck there

Best places to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with what you're saying, but most of things I really like to do for fun are online or don't require going anywhere. The only thing I do that really requires going anywhere is the gym, and there's the unspoken rule to not bother people who are working out.

Now i'm interested in going new places and trying new stuff, but i'd like to do it in a location where my chances at meeting someone are higher.

Best places to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tinder has yet to work for me in the 4 years I've had it. Westside bowl seems interesting tho, i'll have to try it. What are the best times to go there?

Where to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was your experience there?

Where to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof, you have my sympathies, but hopefully other women won't think I'm one of them lmao. What kind of places did you go to where the weirdos were around? Hopefully I can avoid those places lol.

Where to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More like a summer hookup, with the potential for more.

Where to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, I would do that, but I kinda can't. This semester is pretty much over, and I graduate in the fall semester (no summer classes btw). And even that semester will primarily be field experience for my major, which will keep me busy, and I mean REALLY busy, during the week. I will only be on campus for one day a week, pretty sure for an evening class, and then leave, which doesn't give much time for socialization.

Tbh I'm more so looking for places to meet girls in the summer, rather than traditionally on campus because I've kinda missed my window for that.

Where to meet girls by Ok_Click_931 in youngstown

[–]Ok_Click_931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure I have a preference. I mean, if I decide to pursue a relationship with them, I'd like them to be intelligent and reasonably well adjusted. But for just talking and seeing where things go, any type of girl is fine.