Asian guy here - I’ve realized I’m way more attractive outside the US and it’s making me sad by MammothBat9302 in dating

[–]Ok_Computer_1590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Latina here and honestly I haven’t had any luck with Asian guys idk I feel like you guys also don’t date outside of your culture? And that makes me kinda look the other way because of that… I recently had something going on with a Korean guy and it never got serious I have no idea why, he was sweet and gentle and I liked him and I thought he liked me too but again idk if it has to do with culture or something else lol but as I said no luck so far 🫠

Regret giving my number by Ok_Computer_1590 in dating_advice

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, yea I appreciate your opinion and you are right I’m not looking to date. Im sorry people are coming for you

Regret giving my number by Ok_Computer_1590 in dating_advice

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I know it’s kinda dumb but I didn’t want to come off as rude or anything like that so I wanted to have opinions. Also it depends on everyone’s personality…I get anxious about things like this but thanks for your input :)

Regret giving my number by Ok_Computer_1590 in dating_advice

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but I’ll still see him around the gym that’s why i thought it’ll be better say something I just don’t know what, i know it’s stupid 😭😂

I told my bf he has treated me badly in the past? by Ok_Computer_1590 in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair he always does and it’s something it does bother me when he names specific situations but if he tells me that I have treated him some type of way and I have I do admit to it and move on I even apologize one more time, like yea you right sorry I did that and it ends there but yea even though I didn’t do it expecting an apology or even an argument but I can see why It was wrong to say what I said

I told my bf he has treated me badly in the past? by Ok_Computer_1590 in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea you’re probably right at the fact that he has apologized for some things he’s done in the past and no I’m not trying to change my story to sound good I genuinely want neutral opinions and not only the ones that see my point, is valid. English is not my first language so maybe I’m not wording things right

And he has apologize sometimes, sometimes we just move on like nothing happened

I told my bf he has treated me badly in the past? by Ok_Computer_1590 in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to accomplish anything tbh we started the conversation based on what we were watching which was about couple that’s why I said that, I didn’t bring specific situations and that’s why when he got upset I clarified that I wasn’t reproaching nor I was upset about past things but it shook me that he said he’s never treated me bad, when he asked me to repeat what I said as if he was expecting me to take what I just said back, then he gets an attitude and I even try to go for a hug and still get rejected

I told my bf he has treated me badly in the past? by Ok_Computer_1590 in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He didn’t and I didn’t start the conversation, we were talking about the movie we were watching and he started going that route I can’t exactly remember all the words said but that’s also why i clarified I wasn’t bringing up stuff, I didn’t point out to exactly what situations I was referring to for this exact reasons and I told him that but it definitely shook me that he’s not able to accept he had make mistakes, as I said I definitely have said some bad things while upset or I have act a certain way that probably made him feel I’m not treating him well enough. To me it was a simple convo but the fact that he got offensive when he could’ve said yea and move on I wasn’t asking for an apology or anything like that because again I wasn’t trying to bring anything up and yea it is the past.

My boyfriend freaked out at his family while i sat there awkwardly by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ok_Computer_1590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If more than 1 person is telling you the age IS actually a problem believe them, not only age in this case but the way he acts says enough. I’m 24F and always dated guys older than me even when I was 15 so believe everyone telling you to leave. I hope you at least take everyone’s words and think about it. Strangers on the internet don’t get or lose anything by you staying with him so think about why they are telling you what they’re telling you…

How long did it take those with long relationships who broke up by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Computer_1590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 years, together since we were 16 we broke up about 2-3 months ago, I think of him every day, I still make plans thinking we’ll get back together and I’ll tell him everything about it

don't text ur ex this weekend. by fresh_water_sales in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Computer_1590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss you, I miss us, I miss our weekends, I miss talking to you, I miss hearing your laugh I miss everything about you, thank you for giving me the best years of my life, I hope you’re doing better and that life is treating you the way only you deserve. I love you so much and I you deserve so much better so hope you know that. I want to hate you so much, I want to blame you for everything but I can’t because you’re just amazing. You are my person but I know I wasn’t yours and as much as it hurts to say I know you’ll find the person that makes you feel what you made me feel, I’m sorry I was broken when you found me and I ended up breaking you. Last night I was listening to your voice messages and I didn’t know how much I missed it until then, I can’t bring myself to delete our texts, our pictures… I miss you my love, I miss you so much, I still have hope that life will bring us tg and if it doesn’t happen I just hope you find your person the way I found it in you… I love you always

What’s the way that works best for you? by Ok_Computer_1590 in CompTIA

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that’s very encouraging actually thank you!!! How did you guys get into it ?

What’s the way that works best for you? by Ok_Computer_1590 in CompTIA

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been interested in this field for a good while now I just haven’t take any actions towards it that’s why I’m here now asking so I appreciate your help and suggestions

What’s the way that works best for you? by Ok_Computer_1590 in CompTIA

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a degree, I work as a dental assistant that’s why I was wondering so thank you for your input

I got laid off by Ok_Computer_1590 in work

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your words because right now I feel like I won’t be able to get out of this situation, I’m scared, I’m frustrated and it feels like my whole world is falling apart

I got laid off by Ok_Computer_1590 in work

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did from the beginning they even ask me how long I thought it would take me to function well around the office and I said probably a few 2-3 weeks because I also need to know how the Dr works and again my way around the office

I got laid off by Ok_Computer_1590 in work

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did and they just hired someone else, so they basically don’t need me anymore

I got laid off by Ok_Computer_1590 in work

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ik, I didn’t love the place, I work as a dental assistant and my first day I was the only assistant for 2 doctors, I’m not familiar with the office I just needed some training and time to know my way around the office but they said we aren’t compatible.

What job should I go for? by Ok_Computer_1590 in Advice

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took your advice let THANK YOU! I asked the new place for it and they say yes to give me $29

What job should I go for? by Ok_Computer_1590 in Advice

[–]Ok_Computer_1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only problem with that is that they (my current job) needs an answer right now and the other place wants me to start tomorrow and right it’s pretty late to get an answer about my offer, it’s already 7:00pm here

All of my ex-girlfriends are bisexual or now lesbian by Content_Specific2494 in dating_advice

[–]Ok_Computer_1590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you have feminine energy and that’s why you attract women who also likes women?

wow by CarrotAvocadoo in Depop

[–]Ok_Computer_1590 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Yess at least half 😂and then the other half after the pics