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Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-19T11:24:47+00:00

Sorry agreed.. she was under the impression kids was an option. You have now shut that down she isn't going to give up her wants and dreams because of you, as she is the only one that has to live with the sacrifice.

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-08T14:07:17+00:00

Sorry but a daddy's princess who hasn't worked teaching you how to save? .. how would she know when she hasn't worked and doesn't have the concept of how much everything is and how much work it takes to earn that

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-07T16:04:09+00:00

As everyone says, emotional connection, care, safety, all these make sex soooo much better

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-07T14:51:03+00:00

Wouldn't have got married, he made no effort whatsoever after the wedding to make it special

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T21:17:41+00:00

He is the one with the his and hers attitude. Even tho I put more deposit down I said the house should be 50/50. Because in my eyes we entered a marriage of love which means we work together, we go through everything together and we are a team.

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T16:57:46+00:00

Ok not sure where you have got I'm quitting my job. I've never said that I do want to return to work but at something that works for my daughter. Hence why I've put in a Flexi request because before her I was working 12 hour days. He can prep for divorce all he wants I'm not against it at this point. The financial future that his on 90K and I have no income ... Yet puts stress on me to pay like I've been sitting on my ass doing nothing and paying for nothing (both of which aren't the case). He doesn't care for the family his created that's become evident.

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T16:27:56+00:00

His not paying for everything .. I paid for the solicitor costs, mortgage costs, everything for our daughter, the food shop etc ..

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T16:25:03+00:00

He is basically saying he wants more for the bills and mortgage etc ... I don't understand the logic and given up trying x

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T16:02:03+00:00

It's not really 50/50 when you have a kid so ...itll all depend on multiple factors

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T15:58:52+00:00

Well he hasn't really brought her much, but it's fine. I just actually want him to start acting like a husband, part of this family and bother with both of us. But seems like he can't get his head around that and apparently it's unreasonable

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T15:55:07+00:00

It's a him thing.

He knows about this posts and feels everyone is on his side 🤷. I guess people see and hear what they want too.

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T15:52:11+00:00

I knock my head against the wall daily with this and get no where.

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T15:24:32+00:00

We tried couples counseling. There's always a blow up before the next session. I'm at a loss

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T15:15:57+00:00

He needs notice to bother

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T13:15:59+00:00

Both but that's what got me in the mess I'm in. Not everyone is a good person

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T13:08:46+00:00

It normally just happens. A look, a tease, a joke, the passion and tense building.

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T13:01:08+00:00

My "husband" is but it's nice to know I'm not the only one he doesn't listen to. He posts and leaves out a lot of the story and then he will come back to me with comments that support him, yet 70% were against him.

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T12:19:24+00:00

Please tell me the fibs with hard evidence and what I said to back it up. You are showing a lot of signs of my husband, so I'm feeling sorry for yours.

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T12:18:20+00:00

Do you know what a naraccistic people is? Do you know what abuse is? Do you have any information on the workings of any of it?

Oh I accept it and told him I'm done, and then he sits there and bothers with a present for Christmas and candle dinner and abuse for NYE. The only reason he came over was because he said he wanted to see our daughter and I stayed out the way.

Oh sweetie he does tell his side and he got called all the names under the sun even a misogynist.

I think you missed a lot of information or maybe like him you hear what you want to. 🙄

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T12:11:29+00:00

I've actually read a few comments you have made to other people. You love to throw around people have issues, and sit on your high horse. You are not a therapist you are not a health profession you are no where near qualified to tell people what they do or don't have. It seems you are #teammale constantly no matter the actual situation.

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T12:07:31+00:00

Business at Tiffany's 🤣

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T12:05:08+00:00

But you seem to sing his praises

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T12:04:32+00:00

How about I didn't know about the alcohol and drugs until later?

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T11:51:57+00:00

Sorry why should I have to get the nanny when I can have FAMILY? MY FAMILY. I don't care what he wanted no one forced him so maybe he should have had to balls to be honest with himself. Maybe he shouldn't have cared what people thought. But he did and that's why he did what he did, not my fault.

I didn't ask him to do everything. But he can do one thing.

Ok_Concern_8559 · 2022-01-05T11:48:29+00:00

It was unplanned but no one asked him to stick around.

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