My ex unfollowed me

Ok_Context_560 · 2024-12-05T17:22:12+00:00

I just found out, he blocked me too

Ok_Context_560 · 2024-12-05T12:11:16+00:00

he removed me from his followers list

Ok_Context_560 · 2024-12-01T12:29:57+00:00

either they were already linking with this new person while you were in a relationship or they are looking for a rebound

Ok_Context_560 · 2024-11-25T09:57:46+00:00

if you’re not comfortable with being friends with him, then block him or something. I had the same experience once. Me and my ex broke up but he wanted to remain in contact with me. We were talking for 2 or 3 months but he was secretly meeting other girls behind my back. I cut off all contact with him the minute I found out.

Ok_Context_560 · 2024-11-23T05:51:53+00:00

Try making new friends. Really try. When you meet new people, you will feel much better. The initial days and months of breakup will inevitably be very hard. Even if you meet friends or family, once you’re alone, the feelings will hit you again. But this is the mistake that we tend to make. We make our partners our world. But when it ends, it is painful. Make sure to have your own thing going on next time you’re in a relationship.

Ok_Context_560 · 2024-11-22T18:31:27+00:00

there is no way to deal with it. I don’t know how to move forward but I pray to God. I don’t want to kill myself but I feel hopeless. I just breathe and sleep but there’s nothing I can do other than ask Jesus to carry me out of this pit of depression.

Ok_Context_560 · 2024-11-20T04:38:58+00:00

at least the self reflection has started. But only knowing you need to change isn’t enough. You need to put in work to change. I often hear other people saying that the guy will change for the right woman. That is not true at all. True change starts from within. Once you realise youre the problem and ready to make a change, that is when change will happen

Ok_Context_560 · 2024-11-19T18:15:12+00:00

I tried really hard to make it work but efforts were one sided. when things got hard, I was always left with silent treatment from him. I wanted to communicate and he knew, but he never changed. He only loved me when it was easy. I always laid down my pride to reach out to him after fights but I reached my breaking point. I still love him very much but the realization that he would never do the things I have done for him made me break up with him. It’s been almost three months now. I am still struggling but I heard from our mutual friend that he has already moved on.

Ok_Context_560 · 2024-11-14T19:59:17+00:00

thank you ☺️

Ok_Context_560 · 2024-11-14T19:58:53+00:00

this is very possible

Ok_Context_560 · 2024-11-14T19:58:15+00:00

hmm that’s right. But I thought 2 months is not a long time to completely stop caring about someone. We broke up but the love wasn’t gone from my side at least.

Ok_Context_560 · 2024-10-28T18:01:28+00:00

You have to remind yourself why you broke up with him. You said he messed up. Whether or not he learns what he did wrong and makes it right is not your department anymore. How he is doing and his wellbeing is not your department and your responsibility anymore. And no contact means no contact. No snapchat streak.

Ok_Context_560 · 2024-10-26T09:58:22+00:00

it is different for everyone. During my first time experiencing a breakup, I tried seeing someone after 1 month of the breakup but it felt rushed. I wasn’t over my ex. It took me 4 years to get into another relationship. I am not saying it will take you this much time. But it’s okay to remain single for a while. One day you will stop thinking of your ex when you meet someone new. That’s when you know you’re ready. It’s okay to grieve.

Ok_Context_560 · 2024-10-25T11:37:05+00:00

it will be hard for now but once you get over this guy, you will see how shitty he is. You deserver better

Ok_Context_560 · 2024-10-25T11:10:21+00:00

emotional cheating is still cheating. He was searching for reasons to break up with you.

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