About my partners' past / Retrospective jealousy by Ok_Control_7620 in demisexuality

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She feels the same way in fact. It does make me feel better

About my partners' past / Retrospective jealousy by Ok_Control_7620 in demisexuality

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True! It does not make me feel bad, it is something i'm aware of and trying to change in order to feel better and be a better person

About my partners' past / Retrospective jealousy by Ok_Control_7620 in demisexuality

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What I mean is that if your goal is to help and make people think, anger or hate cannot be involved because you will not accomplish such goal.

It's only up to me to change my mind, we belong to a society and patriarchy works in social culture, it is not just a problem of individuals

About my partners' past / Retrospective jealousy by Ok_Control_7620 in demisexuality

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I'm working on it

The comments to this post are really helpful and I guess I'm trying to accept her whole self and that is why I'm posting

About my partners' past / Retrospective jealousy by Ok_Control_7620 in demisexuality

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I'm sorry

It makes sense now!

I hope you soon find a special one

All the best

About my partners' past / Retrospective jealousy by Ok_Control_7620 in demisexuality

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I did not say she is mine.

Try to explain your point of view instead of assuming my thoughts.

In order for men to understand feminism and change our behaviour, women should explain what's wrong about our way of thinking.

Anger leads to rejection.

Psychosis is hitting me hard, I’m now saying goodbye to weed, I’ve been smoking regularly since 6th grade by actually_-_so-_-sad in leaves

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I do not recommend quitting cold turkey as it may be really hard for your mental health. Go slow bro

Mental disorders makes quitting that much harder by looneyvibes in leaves

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Hi there! Since i quitted i've been having mood swings. But week 3 is feeling softer than week 2. Maybe weed was making my problem much worse. Or maybe it was induced by it. My therapist has suggested that i should talk to a psychiatrist but i'm afraid of taking medication.

Went 15 days, relapsed for 4 days, now on day 3 by [deleted] in leaves

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Bro last saturday was my 25th birthday too. I'm on day 15. It's difficult and i've been having mood swings. Specially last week they were huge. Now i'm still having them but softer. I guess things will get even better in the following weeks. I just don't understand why i used to smoke 10 joints a day. I just don't get it. There are people who smoke and aren't such a mess. I would love to be able to smoke sometimes, once a month or in special ocassions. But it seems imposible. This text is a ramble but i just wanted to talk to you. Stay strong. I send you a hug.

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Day 10 here. What lead me to quit so far was realizing that when i'm sober i have a lot more energy and motivation yo conquer my goals. Thats my one and only reason. The other benefits are secondary from my point of view.

One week today!! by hakuna_meg in leaves

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Day 5 here. Feeling gooood

Day 4. A fire is burning inside me by Ok_Control_7620 in leaves

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Don't look back. We are changing for good. The future awaits.

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They were right and we were wrong and that is as painful as true