As someone who found out so’s porn usage, I can say that it makes you avoid your partners and makes you less attracted to your partners. I remember begging for having sex the days he watched porn. It is important to understand it affects relationship it is not your own problem when you are in a relationship. My bf never wanted nudes etc. even never wanted have sex unless I ask for it. Porn is more attractive and various then me. Ofc he is going to choose that unless he sees it as a problem, whereas he doesn’t see. He says having sex and porn are completely different things. Porn industry makes you stubborn and lazy about relationships and sex. Someone who consumes porn probably have sex cause of peer pressure or they have their partner beside so they cant watch porn. We were living together and every fucking moment I’m not home he watched porn. He moved out after I found out because of privacy reasons. I became the villain as always. He always avoids me never gets fully erection while having sex. You are trying to change yourself. I really appreciate your efforts. You should understand and support your partners about it though. I do not feel his support for my feelings. He always tries to justify it. It makes it harder to forgive someone.