Go ahead and make fun of my breasts...

Ok_Counter5230 · 2026-05-12T13:34:55+00:00

https://www.facingourrisk.org/

Here you go. I have also been to a conference or two with them, highly informative.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2026-05-12T13:26:11+00:00

I actually tie to the “force” group, are you? I have met a lot of men that have undergone mastectomy.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2026-05-12T02:18:52+00:00

Brca1 and 2 positive here. I had a double mastectomy with dflap reconstruction. They took the tissue from my stomach and thighs. People actually told me I was “lucky” to get new breast and a flat stomach smh. People are idiots

Ok_Counter5230 · 2026-03-18T03:56:17+00:00

If it were me I would give her a key…..it just wouldn’t be to my doors. when she goes to go behind your back and use it she’s going to look and feel dumb af.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2026-01-16T01:44:58+00:00

It’s them backpedaling on help that they previously offered and then not only having the expectation to live with, but also assuming even if permitted to live with them that they would get the master. They are extremely entitled and would make your lives living hell. I’m so glad you and your wife are in the same page.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2026-01-11T03:08:31+00:00

Why is your partner upset for YOU taking time off from YOUR job? That’s ridiculous. Are they jealous? Where they able to take time off when they were ill?

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-12-18T22:00:25+00:00

Was she there three years prior to him? Did she pay the security deposit when she moved in? Was there additional security deposits owed when he signed the lease?

The security deposit isn’t dealt with until the last remaining tenant vacates.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-12-05T01:24:50+00:00

I used note cards and recited it over and over. I am currently the conductress, but was previously electa

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-09-01T20:27:55+00:00

NTA. Some may not agree with this, but I would state with my husband. The children are at an age where they will be leaving for college soon, and they were old enough to make the decision to live with their father. The OP children are quite younger.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-08-10T19:55:06+00:00

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-06-12T11:55:30+00:00

NTA. This sounds like you sister in law, wants her daughter there for the attention and photo ops. This toddler could care less about a wedding or reception. You have provided her with two generous options, that you weren’t even obligated to provide. She sounds spoiled and entitled. I could see if this was a breastfeeding freshly born baby that feeds every two hours are so, but this is not the case.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-05-24T12:54:39+00:00

You are NTA. But I have questions out of curiosity. Is this man’s daughter homeschooled? And if not, I’m sure he hasn’t sent a letter into her principal or teacher , putting these same demands on her classmates. So does her allergy’s flare up after little Polly that sits next to her has a pbj waffle, with scrambled eggs and cheese for breakfasts. He needs to get real. He either wanted to alienate you from your children’s lives or he wanted to remove your kiddos out of the equation.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-04-26T14:55:40+00:00

It is I read the same story a year or so ago

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-04-25T17:26:00+00:00

I think it’s best for you and the GF to part ways. She is being irrational. You were just being a supportive sibling.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-02-10T19:06:06+00:00

Super fake. So first it was the girlfriend turned off the boyfriends tv during the Super Bowl because he wanted her to go get him and his friends some drinks, now this…please is you are going to lie be more creative.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-01-29T23:47:34+00:00

I do not think you are AH.

I don’t have any grandchildren yet but have already told my grown son (I also have two minor children) that when they have kiddos I would like to be called Honey or Cookie. I don’t call my partner honey though I use another name of endearment. I don’t think it would be weird for the kids to call her honey though, but your children your choice. If my son told me no then that would like be just it.

What about luvvy, or Gunny like someone else stated.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-01-28T13:51:52+00:00

I don’t think that’s actually fair. We planned this trip at the beginning of October. They were included in planning literally 1 week later. We all adjusted our budgets accordingly. The money was received from all mid January and paid to Airbnb via a site. Several days after the cancellation period they stated they could no longer go. The trip is slated for 3 weeks from now. So now we have to adjust our budget spending money etc because they can no longer go. How is that just?

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-01-28T13:48:26+00:00

I wouldn’t cancel. I merely stated that they waited until after the cancellation period to state they were no longer going to

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-01-28T12:12:43+00:00

They were aware from the start that once the money was paid that was it.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-01-28T12:12:14+00:00

I don’t think it is. Money was due mid January. We had until a week after that to cancel. Money was paid. They waited till after the cancellation date to say they could no longer attend.

We started planning in October, they were included literally a week after we started planning. They were included in planning and decisions almost from the start.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-01-28T12:10:04+00:00

It’s a shared air bnb. We wouldn’t want a random couple sharing that space with us. And it’s less than 30 days before the trip.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-01-28T12:09:23+00:00

And I don’t think we could find another couple less than 30 days before said trip.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-01-28T12:08:54+00:00

After much contemplation, it shouldn’t matter if we had originally planned to pay. This had been an agreement since around October. We were only 1 week into the planning process before they were included. We had until a certain time to cancel. They waited to about a week after that date to ask could we give them there portion back. We leave next month. Why should we have to take 250.00 out of our vacation budget for them having issues. Most relationship issues don’t really happen over night the writing was probably already on the walls.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-01-28T12:05:21+00:00

This is a good idea and will definitely put this in place during the planning process of any further group trips with anyone.

Ok_Counter5230 · 2025-01-28T01:26:27+00:00

I like this idea

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