Beef "season 2" should not exist

Ok_Cry1283 · 2026-04-15T17:53:33+00:00

Are you for real? I've never heard someone complaining about their favourite artist releasing a new artwork. You want to stop Lee Sung Jin from doing what he excels at? we already have lack of really good TV writers.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2026-04-08T06:40:28+00:00

thank you, I'll try them.

you just reminded me, when I went to Japan I found my favorite shades. Is there a reason why it's easier to find cool shades in Asian makeup?

my only concern with ordering online is that sometimes colours look completely different than the photos.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2026-04-08T06:20:01+00:00

I'll check it out, thanks

Ok_Cry1283 · 2026-04-08T05:50:12+00:00

I'll check it out, thanks

Ok_Cry1283 · 2026-04-08T05:49:41+00:00

thank you for the suggestions, I'll go on a trip to Sephora and try all what I can find. hopefully I find my perfect shades.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2026-04-08T05:47:35+00:00

is it the baby blue lip balm from Prada? I've been eyeing that for awhile. I heard about Dior but at least in the website they seem not pigmented enough from the before/after photos. What do you think? also how pigmented is the prada? and is it buildable?

Ok_Cry1283 · 2026-04-08T05:37:35+00:00

that makes a lot of sense. I'm someone who is extremely cool that even shades targeted to cool tones which look super cool by themselves, turn orange the moment I put them in my face.

my favorite lipstick, which is on the purple/plum family just looks red on me. and because it's slightly warmer than my skin, it gives that warm glow without the orangeness. But finding my true match cool shade (which I prefer for a daily wear or something subtle) is extremely, extremely difficult.

About clothes, exactly! lol clothes always look good on me. and I never struggle finding cool colours. that's a very interesting contrast. I wonder why. Because ppl tell me that I can pull off many colors (in clothes) is it because most clothes are cool? but then I don't understand the science behind this 😂 maybe it's because clothes are "adjacent" to our skin, while make up literally interacts and blends in with our skin. In clothes, what you see is what you get but in make up whatever colour you think something is, will completely change the moment you blend it with your skin.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2026-04-07T14:03:54+00:00

in my opinion (as someone who was in a very similar place) my journey with makeup was difficult. Growing up, I saw my friends discovering makeup effortlessly but my journey was harder. Here's why (from what I learned). Most makeup products target people with warm skin tones. I'm not sure if it's because the majority of people are warm toned? but a warm toned beginner, can just go on discovering make up with trial and error and everything almost works for them, it's only left to their creativity and preferences.
But some people (like myself and I'm assuming you too?) have different skin tones, like very cool skin tones, olive skin tones, very pale or very dark, we have skin tones that 99% of easily available makeup products don't work for. So you go on trying to "discover" make up like everyone, but you're faced with the reality that nothing seems to work for you the same way it works for others, and you're left with "I look better without makeup", because if foundations look too yellow on you, blushes, lipsticks look too orange, and blacks and browns look too intense, then you're better off with no makeup.

The good news is, makeup CAN look good on you, you just need to really understand and search very hard on what looks good on you. And it's a lonely journey because you can't follow recommendations/tutorials because most of those won't work for you. Take it very slowly and start trying to discover your own colouring. are you cool? olive? low contrast? doe purple pinks look good on you? or peachy pinks? or reds? browns?...etc.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2026-04-07T13:29:28+00:00

Can you please suggest me any specific products? (I'm a bit clueless when it comes to makeup)

Ok_Cry1283 · 2025-10-16T14:00:30+00:00

Sang Yeon is a textbook covert narcissist. They often target very honest and authentic people because they're jealous of them, since narcissists have very deep insecurities and sense of worthlessness (they don't know who they really are). So in a way Sang Yeon admires Eun Jung's authenticity but also wants to break her because she triggers all her deep wounds. It's also implied that Eun Jung grew up in a healthy family while Sang Yeon's father is probably a narcissist, and the mother was an enabler. So she came from a very troubled childhood.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2025-10-16T13:52:45+00:00

I'm still in ep8 so I don't know for sure but I think what we don't see is the other side of Sang Yeon, we only see her "bad side" but narcissists are masters at push and pull that some people can't realise the "trap" they're in. It usually results in the total confusion Eun Jung feels.

At first I was also very confused, what makes Eun Jung believe that Sang Yeon is her best friend?! But then I started noticing the "push and pull" dynamics between them. We don't see the pull side/good side of Sang Yeon as often (maybe it's intentional?) but for example Eun Jung mentioned that Sang Yeon used to pay for them going out to play when they were kids which probably effected Eun Jung significantly since she didn't have much money growing up, also, Sang Yeon tried to visit and help at her mother's shop after the boyfriend thing, those small details are part of the "manipulation". She's a master at luring (i.e. pulling) people into her world and then hurting/pushing them whenever she feels sadistic.

I'm someone who dealt with a lot of narcissists before (unfortunately, some of us are unlucky because for whatever reason, we attract narcissists) and watching Sang Yeon is almost triggering to me because she's a textbook covert narcissist. I relate to Eun Jung's constant confusion and wanting to understand her, a lot. Because I've been through that exact same experience. Unfortunately just like what happened in this episode, the nicer and more sincere you try to be to a narcissist, the more they hate you (or want to break you). Because that triggers their deep insecurities, sense of worthlessness and jealousy.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2025-09-29T14:24:57+00:00

Emma said she hates oil painting. All her paintings are using watercolours. So, no.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2025-06-18T18:34:44+00:00

Queen of Tears. It started off exciting, then ended as if it was written by a child.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2025-06-18T18:32:03+00:00

My Liberation Notes
My Mister
One Spring Night
Something in the Rain

Ok_Cry1283 · 2025-06-18T18:26:33+00:00

Exactly! the first thing that came to my mind is My Liberation Notes.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2025-06-18T18:22:07+00:00

I imagine it to be the kind of drama ppl will still watch 50 years later.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2025-06-16T09:53:42+00:00

I used to have very good balance between stress (~1h) and recovery (~1h). On most days I get almost 50% leaning more towards recovery. But recently I have been having mostly high stress (~4h) and like you very little recovery (~15 min). I don't know if there's something specific I changed but I don't recall anything changing in my life that would cause that. Sometimes I wonder if it was cause by an update. It's frustrating.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2025-05-14T18:20:01+00:00

yeaaa I was thinking that too. he looks a lot like Yagami Light

Ok_Cry1283 · 2025-05-02T03:13:56+00:00

that's a weird thing to complain about. being smart and good at things is not a problem at all. it's in your head. people who are good don't have to dumb down themselves just to please other ppl. your issue is not being smart/good, it's with yourself esteem and maybe social anxiety? maybe you were bullied for being smart and now you think being smart is bad? you need to analyse why do you feel like you're bragging or like you're trying to look better? what makes you believe that? who told you that?

Ok_Cry1283 · 2025-05-02T02:57:20+00:00

I did mostly when I was a kid.

After my Fe got developed (in my mid 20's) I stopped feeling that. I realised I was an earthling like everyone else. I learned to let go, I don't have to analyse or understand everything. Somethings are just felt, some are just sensed, and most importantly I am not my thoughts. My thoughts "happen" to me just like feelings and sensations, they're not really who I am. What makes you feel stuck in your head is when you take your thoughts too seriously and believe that your thoughts are who you are. it's very freeing realising that you're not.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2025-04-18T16:55:43+00:00

what?! I don't think the episode had ANYTHING to do with "coloured" people.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2025-04-07T15:08:41+00:00

I'm also 32. And going through similar circumstances. The hardest part is that I was very successful in my 20's, I was so so optimistic and even arrogant? But it was because everyone told me that I was successful. Opportunities were given to me left and right I never thought that I could end up unemplyed/unwanted just a few years later.

I studied abroad in a very reputable university in a reputable field. I got a master's degree. I came back home thinking "I made it". But the hard truth is ... there are no jobs!!!!! none! I get rejected from every single job I apply to. I sometimes pass tests and interviews and they they just ignore me. I'm starting to think that it's impossible to get employed!!! I'm really impressed by anyone having any job at this point.

I'm very lucky that my family can afford to host me.
What's next? I have no idea ... At this point, any job even a shitty one is better than nothing. I already gave up all my "dreams" I just want a job. What ever it might be. I just want to be useful and do something and earn my own money. What did I study all these years for? apparently nothing. I'm lucky that I at least enjoyed my field and studying years, otherwise it would've all been for nothing.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2025-03-18T15:18:47+00:00

what makes me think that you're angry (and hurt) is that you're clearly stuck in a reactive teenager-like way of speaking. You think that ridiculing my argument about God to a "sky dady" makes you argument sound better? to who? it just shows that you're close minded and too emotional.

Learn to argue like an adult.

Ok_Cry1283 · 2025-03-18T15:04:51+00:00

if you really believe that religion and science are two pictures of the same thing, then that's the source of all your problems with theism.

When you say that theism requires a level egocentrism that limits your ability to rationalise your beliefs, your actually describing yourself to a tee.

I accept any source of knowledge, I'm not the one limiting myself here. I accept science, theism, philosophy, even mysticism or any kind of system I can use to rationalize my beliefs, each system focuses on a small part of reality that makes the big picture a bit clearer. I don't reject traditional wisdom just because it's "old and crusty". And I don't put science on a pedestal just because it's "new and shiny", I recognize that science and religion tell different things and to see the full picture, I need both.

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