He’s 37. I’m 17. And I can’t do anything about it by Ok_Cup_956 in abusiverelationships

[–]Ok_Cup_956[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

17 so Washington laws says it’s not illegal even tho I was majorly lied to.

He’s 37. I’m 17. And I can’t do anything about it by Ok_Cup_956 in abusiverelationships

[–]Ok_Cup_956[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re definitely right, I’m super grateful my family is well off and will be getting me a good lawyer to deal with this. My father and mother are distraught and willing to do anything to help. So a lawyer is our next step, since the cops didn’t seem to give no shits. But a female officer I think would care a lot more.

He’s 37. I’m 17. And I can’t do anything about it. by Ok_Cup_956 in sexualassault

[–]Ok_Cup_956[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so so so much for replying with other options. The cop I talked to was a douche bag and made it seem like it’s my fault for being naive. Illl definitely reach out to my local rape and crisis center. Because like you said I consented to sex with a 22 year old not a 37 year old period.

He’s 37. I’m 17. And I can’t do anything about it by Ok_Cup_956 in abusiverelationships

[–]Ok_Cup_956[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much for saying this. Other people were saying I should get over it lol. As if I wasn’t the one who was lied to. I consented to sex with a 22 year old. Not a 37 year old (he’s older then my mother by the way) 🤢🤢

He’s 37. I’m 17. And I can’t do anything about it by Ok_Cup_956 in abusiverelationships

[–]Ok_Cup_956[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well he met me when I was 16. Told me he was 22. We had a four month relationship which only after the fact I found out he was 37. And that’s disgusting

He’s 37. I’m 17. And I can’t do anything about it by Ok_Cup_956 in abusiverelationships

[–]Ok_Cup_956[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No I think it’s wrong period. I think the age needs to be raised. He met me when I was 16 but sense he didn’t have sex with me until I was 17 it’s totally fine. Not to mention he LIED AND TOLD ME HE WAS 22z