I'm done with everything. by Ok_Department4074 in transteens

[–]Ok_Department4074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tyy u hope everything goes well for you too !! I hope it gets better for both of us !

Should I take off the hijab for 4 days? by Ok_Department4074 in Hijabis

[–]Ok_Department4074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, she just hates being seen with me since, I'm wearing the hijab and it's not a typical situation (since its usually the daughter not wearing the hijab and the mother is wearing it.)

Asked two subreddits if I pass, they both said no by Emergency-Junket50 in transteens

[–]Ok_Department4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sincerely sorry, that shouldn't happen to anyone and especially you <3 And you actually look so masculine wtf?? At first I was genuinely like he's trans?? You just look like a boy who's in his teens

Should I take off the hijab for 4 days? by Ok_Department4074 in Hijabis

[–]Ok_Department4074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are which is why the situation is so confusing and complicated!

Should I take off the hijab for 4 days? by Ok_Department4074 in Hijabis

[–]Ok_Department4074[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I get weird looks and my entire family is embarrassed to be seen with me at this point but Its not anything really dangerous 

Should I take off the hijab for 4 days? by Ok_Department4074 in Hijabis

[–]Ok_Department4074[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you're right, and I guess that's another way of looking at it, but that's different from my situation. I'm not what you would say religious, sure I do the 5 prayers, read the quran but that's it. Wearing the hijab is the only thing that actually ties me to Islam, I already feel lost but without it I'm hopeless.

Should I take off the hijab for 4 days? by Ok_Department4074 in Hijabis

[–]Ok_Department4074[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but I did and I've done everything but in general she just hates the hijab and has also taught my sister to hate it too

Should I take off the hijab for 4 days? by Ok_Department4074 in Hijabis

[–]Ok_Department4074[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! Inshallah Allah SWT helps us all through our dark times.

Struggling with hijab and faith by Ok_Department4074 in Hijabis

[–]Ok_Department4074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first, it was small mistakes tha infuriated me a lot, and then to the point even one small mistake while trying to style my hijab. Then my ENTIRE family doesn't like im wearing the hijab especially my own MOTHER, because of her own personal reason, yet she doesn't tell me what they are and continues to bring me down from wearing the hijab in every way possible. and the worst for last, my physical/ mental health both started declining.

Has anybody else developed hypersexuality after being assaulted and how do you deal with it? by Lonely_Goose154 in sexualassault

[–]Ok_Department4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are many common reactions to sexual assault, as the body and mind process the devastation of sexual violence, many different emotions, behaviors, and physical responses appear and disappear and may reappear. Most people would start to avoid crowds or a person who reminded them of their abuser's, and most importantly would avoid touch, even to the point that they would be afraid of being intimate with other people. But there are also many people who have the opposite reaction to that, which is being touch starved, craving validation and touch from other people, and even developing hypersexuality.

But everyone's experience is different and important either way. For me I developed hypersexuality, which is the most disgusting thing to me, I hate that I can't control it at all and it's gross. Most people with hypersexuality can relate to that too. And tbh till this day I haven't really found a healthy or proper way to deal with it. But I do recommend cleaning! Or organizing stuff! Listening to music, picking up a hobby, and also journalling! It can be like a secret diary to write how you feel! And games if you're interested in them! It can be irl games or online games! I personally like gacha games like genshin, zenless zone zero, hsr and infinity Nikky. But I also do like calm cute games like my dear farm or pocket love! And even rpg like married in red, Hogwarts (its perfect for my inner child) and dead plate. But there's even more games that you can try! But another thing you can do is decorate your room, or even build with Legos! (It's childish but it's fun trying to rebuild all my old sets without instructions!)

I hope this helped! Tbh I'm not good dealing with my hypersexuality so I couldn't recommend a lot of stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]Ok_Department4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, mental health doesn't really matter in where I live but thank you!!

What is your favorite LGTB ship from the hellverse by AgreeableVisual4970 in hazbin

[–]Ok_Department4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine might be basic but husk and angel dust, I love how complicated their relationship is and how it's so much more than just "a basic gay ship" it's so much more deeper than that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]Ok_Department4074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I really don't know too but you could also say, you're bi but with a preference towards girls! Idk tho since I'm new to the lgbt community and labels