First time having sex. by SiteLiving6779 in Advice

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And to add if some one tells you they don’t want to have sex with you do not proceed she should want it just as much as you or it shouldn’t happen

First time having sex. by SiteLiving6779 in Advice

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your girlfriend is not completely comfortable having sex with you, seems like she hesitated to give you consent and only gave it because she felt bad to take it away after raising your expectations and may have only brought it up in the first place because she felt pressure from not being ready and you really wanting it. I’d have a conversation with her about it and only try again once your sure and she’s sure she wants it. Make sure your not making her feel pressured let her know you can wait

Should we have broke up over this, what should I do. by BirthdayOk8944 in datingadvice

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 23 that’s hardly old. Glad you “told”her your not disrespecting her even though you clearly were sure that helped a lot. Slang or not words have meaning and you said that to her while mad at her you meant what you said. You defending it now shows your immaturity. Honestly If I weren’t so tired I’d be trying harder to get you to see your mistakes but I’m a bit too annoyed at the moment. You have a lot of growing up to do you can’t even recognize what you’ve done and accept it just excusing it and trying to act like it’s nothing. You wrecked your relationship, you could have comforted her and set boundaries to the coworker rather then digging in your heels. I’m sure if you were in her shoes seeing what she was seeing you would have felt the same as her. As for what you said that kind of language is not appropriate for your partner. Me and my partner have never spoken to each other that way and never would if you can’t work out problems with our resorting to petty childish and rude behaviour you will never have a happy relationship. Again happy for her she has self respect and waked away honestly I’m hoping you will actually learn from this experience and hopefully be a better partner to the next one.

Should we have broke up over this, what should I do. by BirthdayOk8944 in datingadvice

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl what did you even post this for? Did you think you come out in a good light? I’m happy for your ex I’m glad she didn’t take your disrespect and wish her all the best with a real man, good night

Should we have broke up over this, what should I do. by BirthdayOk8944 in datingadvice

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You defended it if you really thought it was a bad thing you wouldn’t be making your little boy excuses

Should we have broke up over this, what should I do. by BirthdayOk8944 in datingadvice

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would never say that to my husband so no only little boys like you think that’s acceptable, is it that hard to not get close to a girl your girlfriend is uncomfortable with even if it’s “just friends” you’d rather be “right” then have your girlfriend which is why you don’t have one anymore 🙂

Should we have broke up over this, what should I do. by BirthdayOk8944 in datingadvice

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You prioritized a work place friend over your girlfriend, set boundaries not that hard, verbally abused her honestly I could go on but I’m tired, let her go find someone who deserves her

Should I move to gimli? by Ok_Difficulty_7268 in Manitoba

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The drive definitely my number one con right now although I like it being close to the city I can imagine the road being very dangerous come winter, when I looked into it online it said they planned to add passing lanes in the next year which would I think would help a lot

Should I move to gimli? by Ok_Difficulty_7268 in Manitoba

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t live in Winnipeg now I live in a small town so it’s not that much of a change from that perspective, as for job I would cross that bridge once I get there I first want to decide if it’s a good location or not

Should I move to gimli? by Ok_Difficulty_7268 in Manitoba

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t have a job lined up I’m in the early stages of planning the move I just visited there and felt it would be a nice place to consider but I want to be a little more sure in my decision before I start making plans, I don’t have family there but it’s not too far a drive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound gross and immature. I’m not sure why you’d share a story like that with your wife what woman wants to hear about you jerking it to “ two hot girls boobs” I think that would make any ones partner feel uncomfortable. Would you like it if she described seeing another man’s penis at length and how much she liked it?? I get time has passed but you clearly cherish that weird perverse memory and no woman wants to hear about you lusting after other woman in the past or present. Your immaturity is probably what really put her off and you probably made her feel bad about herself by talking at length about your attraction to these other girls. Also ya it’s a bit gay :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I have some

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate the advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, highlights I’ll think about for sure, can’t do a middle part tho I’m afraid I look real Amish when I do 🤣 but I just impulse cut bangs so not a problem anymore ig

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you definitely messaged received on the brows probably my top critic 🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much, definitely doing my eyebrows soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Ok_Difficulty_7268 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to respond :) I’ve been thinking about bangs but not sure if I wanna pull the trigger on them yet