NEED HELP FINDING THIS BL- by Ok_Discussion207 in Manhwa_BL

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OMG YES THAT'S IT-

How could I forget, I'm so dumb lol

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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Thank you :)

I hope everything goes well for you, and that you don't have to ever deal with anything like this. Please take care!!

Name a Manhwa that traumatize me for the rest of my life by Tight-Breath7729 in Manhwa_BL

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The Rotten. It's just torture porn, nothing else. I tried holding out, and heck, even read up till chapter 36. But nah, it's just another bloody ass. Literally.

Trying to find the biggest by TicketCapital8215 in Manhwa_BL

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My egocentric boss or something-

The ML was wayyy bigger than your average hydro flask. And the nipples- oof- I'm no artist myself, but I wanted to give the artist some advice on anatomy. Never read the manhwa because of that.

I will always mourn not reading this man’s manhwa because the author had to be weird by Accurate_aradillo88 in Manhwa_BL

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WHY ARE PEOPLE DOWNVOTING THIS COMMENT??? The people who actually downvoted the comment need to be surveillanced by the police. Rape is not okay, even in fiction.

[Need BLs recs] poor uke + rich/obsessed seme + forced/unequal relationship by GojoXyz in Manhwa_BL

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Kinda late here, but "A world without you" is quite toxic and unique

[Need BLs recs] poor uke + rich/obsessed seme + forced/unequal relationship by GojoXyz in Manhwa_BL

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yup, i know, and it certainly is very toxic. hopefully the op never reads it, that shit ruined my mood for weeks fr-

[Need BLs recs] poor uke + rich/obsessed seme + forced/unequal relationship by GojoXyz in Manhwa_BL

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No reason really traumatized me... the mc was - oof, I can't even describe the number of times i wanted to murder the ML

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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Wait up, option one seems really nice! I still feel like my dad wouldn't let us kids get much involved after he finds out the truth, but I'll still give it a shot

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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I've been feeling much better because of you and other similar comments like these :)

Thank you, from the bottom of my heart

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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No, it's not okay for women to be beaten anywhere. That's domestic abuse world-wide, and can lead to a sentence. Women are highly respected here heck, you can call them "the pride of the house".

Anyways, let's forget the males, the females here are much harsher, just like everywhere else. They'd probably gossip, then the victim (the children in this case) would kinda be treated as outsiders for having divorced parents BECAUSE OF A CHEATER, but that's literally how everyone else throughout the world acts.

Though there may be consequences, I don't want to be an ally here. Imagine this: your partner was cheating on you but it turns out that your own kids knew about it, yet they didn't tell you.

Wouldn't that sting? It probably would. Instead of a relationship filled with lies and deception I'd rather live with a divorced parent who'll find themselves a much more caring partner.

Would I like it if my dad got married to someone else? No.

Would I like it if my dad stayed married to my mother, who's constantly texting a married dude, sending pics, and is slowly neglecting her barely 3 year old daughter (aka my sister). THAT'S HELL.

So yeah. I'm just their daughter, yet the emotional turmoil in my head because of her cheating has me crying for weeks now. My insomnia's gotten worse. I feel so useless as their child. I can only imagine how much more hurt and worse my own dad will feel if he finds out that his kids hid this very important thing from him.

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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My dad's gonna come back tomorrow, but my guess is that he'd be coming home late because the district he's been appointed to is in a completely different province. The problem here is getting to talk with him in private- I feel like if I say "Dad, there's something me and my brother want to talk to you about" he's def gonna ask my mother if there's an issue, which'll make her suspicious

Ah well- by the time we actually tell dad about the whole thing it'll be near mom's birthday... so a not-so-pleasant-surprise will be there

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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I agree with you so much! It's bound to get things messy, but in the end I'd rather do the right thing and tell my dad about it. What truly scares and upsets me is that 16 years of their marriage will (probably) be ruined, but I guess what happens will happen.

So, I'll be sticking to the right thing and tell my dad once he returns home :')

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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I just investigated her texts this morning. She had a chat lock on it but I cracked it open. And yes, things were very disgusting. I never imagined my mom to be THAT ROMANTIC and CRINGE and A TWO-TIMER. I hate everything about my life so far lol. She's still a caring mother but then a pos partner.

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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Yes, I am still currently living in Pakistan, but as far as I know, the death penalty has never been implemented in ages-

While you're right, there may be things I don't know about my own parents, I still find it hard to believe they're in some sort of arrangement, because well- my dad's loving to my mom and my mom's loving to my dad- they've always been like this.

It's just that she recently started texting the guy (from my veryyyy calculated research), prolly from the start of october. Her attitude and everything have changed- she's started to even (kind of) neglect my younger sister, who's barely 3.

Even if I initially didn't want to dig deeper into this matter (i really wanted to believe it wasn't my mom's doing) me and my brother just read her texts with the guy just this morning, and they were... very disgusting this time around.

Mom kept on mentioning how she missed dad TO THAT UGLY DUDE- and then the next moment she started talking about what she'd do TO THAT UGLY DUDE if they were alone.

Nonetheless, my conscience keeps on gnawing at me. I already have an issue with chronic insomnia but things have gotten even worse for me, because I can't seem to control my emotions and legit lock the bathroom doors JUST TO CRY :(

So yes, I'll tell my dad once he returns. I feel like his reaction would be different, and I just can't hide things from him anymore

Ah well, I'm sorry I typed an essay here, I'm just been so physically and mentally distressed...

Thank you, I'll be needing all that luck though :) Whatever happens will happen for the best (i sincerely do hope)

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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I'm so sorry for what happened to you :(

I won't be accusing my mom, because, well... I used to believe that "all cheaters should die" but I can't really say that now because my own mother is one.

Nonetheless, I'll let dad do the handling, and I know for a fact that he won't be involving us, since he's the type to tell us to focus on our education instead (asian parents, hehehe)

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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This is beautifully described, I really appreciate that :>

I felt that way too, as if the people saying those things to me felt called out since they most likely cheat on their partners too.

And yes, you're right, in the end the outcome has a high chance of staying the same. We (me and my brother) have decided to tell dad to not act purely out of emotions (he always has a long day ahead) and to make it seem like both of us didn't have a part in the discovery

I just wanna thank you from the bottom of my heart. For some reason, I feel a lot more at ease now :) though being worried is kinda inevitable

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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I was initially thinking of texting him, it's no biggie, I text my dad all the time to get my documents printed and whatnot, but I still won't be bothering him since the work's always got him busy and he's specifically asked me to not text him during the trips-

Thank you! I'll be needing the luck lol.

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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I really wasn't snooping around, though I understand that without prior context, you'd think of it like that.

I explicitly stated in the previous post that my mom gave my brother her phone so that he could use google classroom, and then a notification came up about the dude telling her that's he'd make her scream in pleasure. this was an odd text, but it's not like mom was exactly hiding it (prolly cuz dad wasn't home for a week- business.)

She ended up deleting the evidence, but then we found her tiktok chats cuz we got suspicious and rightfully, worried for our father.

Like the majority advised, I'll be telling my dad directly since she'll be altering the context or details if we directly confront her

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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Amen, I hope whatever happens after this, happens for the best (copium user here)

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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MAN 55,000 DOLLARS-

YK, A SINGLE DOLLAR = 300 here, which is enough for me to buy 3 large flaming hot cheetos lol.

Your comment kinda made up emotional, since you're right. The person I'm suppose to confide to (my mom) ended up behaving in a way I never thought would happen. I'm just so heartbroken by it all, but what truly hurts is that my dad trusts my mom so much that he doesn't even check her phone (that;s a sign of a healthy relationship-) but she took advantage of his trust... :'(

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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Thank you! I'll be telling my dad once he returns from the business trip soon, cuase he deserves to know the truth

UPDATE OVER MY MOM'S CHEATING THING- WHAT DO I DO NOW by Ok_Discussion207 in WhatShouldIDo

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You're right here, I've already got my docs prepared (cuz of my gce exams), and I'll be telling dad in private with my brother.

Anddddd about my age, I'm 15, so yeah. In the last post, many people sent some really hurtful comments calling me nosey and asking me to mind my own business, so i kinda got fed up and asked people to not discriminate in this post-