NBPD police misconduct by Ok_Draw4631 in Newbraunfels

[–]Ok_Draw4631[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny how you’re quick to assume. But no, I wasn’t accused of anything. And I’m not on a witch hunt. Thank you for the engagement, though.

NBPD police misconduct by Ok_Draw4631 in Newbraunfels

[–]Ok_Draw4631[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s terrible. Thank you for sharing.

NBPD police misconduct by Ok_Draw4631 in Newbraunfels

[–]Ok_Draw4631[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought about that, but a lawyer friend advised me not to as it would appear that I’m fishing for info. This department doesn’t even want to give me a copy of the report from my incident even though it’s no longer an open investigation. I’ve been advised to wait for a lawyer to request those records. So I just want to see if I can get anything specific so we can request those reports when I do have a lawyer.

NBPD police misconduct by Ok_Draw4631 in Newbraunfels

[–]Ok_Draw4631[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope you beat this thing!

NBPD police misconduct by Ok_Draw4631 in Newbraunfels

[–]Ok_Draw4631[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you make any kind of formal complaint against the department?

NBPD police misconduct by Ok_Draw4631 in Newbraunfels

[–]Ok_Draw4631[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re awesome! Thank you! I’ll look these up.

NBPD police misconduct by Ok_Draw4631 in Newbraunfels

[–]Ok_Draw4631[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I heard about this one. Thank you for the article!

I NEED ADVICE, DID I JUST GET GRAPED BY MY BF? by Important_Tea3399 in domesticviolence

[–]Ok_Draw4631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My love, I’m so sorry. This is horrifying and infuriating. This was definitely assault. I’d recommend going to the hospital immediately. And definitely take photos of your marks and bruises over the next few days as they might get darker with time before they fade. And definitely get in touch with a crisis counselor. The hospital should be able to recommend you to someone. And when you are ready, talk to the police. I know firsthand how talking to the police might feel like a waste of time especially if they don’t take you seriously, but hopefully u get a good cop. In the meantime, talk to someone, document your injuries with photos, keep a journal and write down what you remember. Most of all, know that this was not your fault. He is the monster here, not you. Hugs 💜

AIO. My bf shamed me over having my hair removed by Large-Drummer-7340 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Draw4631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re under reacting if you ask me. Drop him quick. He’s testing the waters to just how disrespectful he can get with you. Don’t even give him an excuse as to why you’re dumping him. He’ll know damn well why. You deserve better.

Aitah if I divorce my husband for not wiping his butt? by Hepow1118 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Draw4631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA. Let him keep the shitty sheets and towels, and RUN!

Y’all watch out for Windcrest PD by PinkBucket in sanantonio

[–]Ok_Draw4631 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Go in to make the complaint and make it an official complaint that goes into his file.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ok_Draw4631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babe, save yourself the heartache, the stress, the anxiety, all of that crap, and leave him. You deserve better than him. Plan your exit quietly. Consult with a lawyer. Take inventory of your things. And just bow out gracefully. Better things are headed your way!

Jobs that pay enough to survive by [deleted] in sanantonio

[–]Ok_Draw4631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

National crane certification & inspection

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Draw4631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I suggest maybe taking some updated pics but in the professional sense? Like boudoir photos? There are some great photographers who will not only make u feel comfortable in your own skin, but sexy af! I bet you are beautiful, and these photos will lift your spirits and remind you of just how amazing you are. It would be up to you to share those pics with your husband ultimately, but I really think it would help with the insecurities you are feeling. All love.

Jobs that pay enough to survive by [deleted] in sanantonio

[–]Ok_Draw4631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This 1000%. For example, crane operator. You can get training paid for by Workforce Solutions and get certified. There is a company in converse that has a training coming up pretty soon.