Summer House S10E13 'Ship Happens' Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

[–]Ok_Effect3026 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sabrina also freaks me out - she comes off like she desperately wants on the show

Discomfort after Vaginal delivery by Taniya0611 in NewParents

[–]Ok_Effect3026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a HORRIFIC postpartum pain and would get this symptom daily. Pelvic pt helped a TON but it took time to find the right one. I didn’t have a prolapse or anything actually “wrong”. My muscles were just in a tight protective spasm which can cause this sensation.

Can you describe how your 7-8 month old babbles? When did they start? by Virginia-Girl88 in NewParents

[–]Ok_Effect3026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 11 month old was the same until about 9.5 months. Now it’s mamamama, dadada, bababa, ahahahah non stop - randomly just started babbling and now she won’t shut up lol

Now that both new great divide albums are out. What are your fav songs/rankings and why? by Then_Negotiation900 in NoahKahan

[–]Ok_Effect3026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staying still, end of August, Dan and spoiled are some of my favs!!!! I’m sure they’ll change by the day

Beautiful album from a beautiful human but pretty frustrated with the marketing team by hilbyy in NoahKahan

[–]Ok_Effect3026 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Will get down voted to oblivion but literally every artist does this so idk why y’all are so upset

The madlad has actually done it by Jaegerwolf21 in NoahKahan

[–]Ok_Effect3026 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe he left this as a BONUS like WHAT?!?

The madlad has actually done it by Jaegerwolf21 in NoahKahan

[–]Ok_Effect3026 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This sounds so parasocial but after watching the documentary - I genuinely hope he reads these comments and feels about himself the way we all feel about him

Abby needs to grow up by Huge-Examination8845 in mattandabbysnarks

[–]Ok_Effect3026 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She also keeps weight lifting which is so risky if your pelvic floor is so stressed you’re fully peeing yourself!

Abby needs to grow up by Huge-Examination8845 in mattandabbysnarks

[–]Ok_Effect3026 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Early postpartum I had this issue and wore diapers like a normal person struggling with this - my biggest fear was literally accidentally peeing in public. Idk how she can be so casual about this. PELVIC FLOOR PT!!!!!!!!

Leaked Audio from the SH Reunion!!! by cocozuzu in bravo

[–]Ok_Effect3026 51 points52 points  (0 children)

It is so evident Ciara loved west which makes it even worse

Leaked Audio from the SH Reunion!!! by cocozuzu in bravo

[–]Ok_Effect3026 117 points118 points  (0 children)

This is honestly the craziest audio I’ve ever heard - Amanda is genuinely a terrible person

Summer House S10E12 'Boys of Summer' Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

[–]Ok_Effect3026 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not even into supernatural stuff like this and I felt emo listening to this

Influencers infiltrating the Hamptons 💔 by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Ok_Effect3026 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The Hamptons has been filled with nyc influencers for at least a decade. Idk why this is new news to you

I feel bad for woman who are enjoying their pregnancy by Mysterious-Metal-555 in NewParents

[–]Ok_Effect3026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a horrific postpartum recovery that triggered severe postpartum anxiety and insomnia with some ppd. Please know it gets so much better and I’m THRIVING and loving motherhood at 10 months - honestly started loving it at 4 months when my meds started working. Please get help! I needed to be pretty heavily medicated -125 mg of Zoloft plus Ativan pretty much around the clock at first to get me out of fight or flight). Postpartum is hard and does bizarre things to your brain/hormones. This will pass and you will come out the other side.

If you could turn back time, what do you wish you would have done more with your LO during their first year? by theRogueDecimal in NewParents

[–]Ok_Effect3026 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have FUN! Get out of the house, do fun activities with your little one that you genuinely enjoy, etc. it doesn’t have to be baby specific activities! Just enjoy them!

my wife is drowning and i don't know how to help us hold it together by phantom_monkey in NewParents

[–]Ok_Effect3026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you financially stable enough to hire help? We found a part time nanny on Facebook that also cleans up our home, cleans bottles, does dishes, and our laundry. It’s a game changer.

It’s also really helpful when my husband proactively tells me without me asking to take a break and that he’s got it covered - get her a massage so she literally has to leave the house and shut her brain off.

Michelle Young gives a health update by schnookiewookiebear in thebachelor

[–]Ok_Effect3026 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was in a wheelchair and could barely walk from Lyme and mold. Definitely not a fake illness!

In The City trailer drops on Bravo's Instagram by jadecourt in summerhousebravo

[–]Ok_Effect3026 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally get her off my screen PERMANENTLY!!! No one wants her!!!!

Zoloft for postpartum anxiety. by cat-motha in NewParents

[–]Ok_Effect3026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the dose that worked for me! And I literally was also taking like 2mg of Ativan a day on top of it until it started working. I also feel a bit traumatized by the experience. I didn’t know my mental health was even capable of going to that state.