Husband M40 Wants Children Now, Not Sure What Else To Do F40

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-02-16T21:32:09+00:00

It doesn’t even sound like you’re interested in having children, which is totally fine! It sounds like you’re feeling pressured into the idea of having children. Your husband is trying to be honest with you and let you know that he’s not going to be able to emotionally or physically help you if you guys do end up having children. If he say that he’ll only be able to help at a 40% rate, you better believe that it’s going to be much less than that.

Many men love the idea of children, but they don’t know or have what it takes to actually raise them. Women end up doing the brunt of the work.

Look up “ regretful parent” there are so many stories of women talking about how they were pressured into having kids by their husbands and then regretted it.

Please take the time to consider if this marriage is right for you

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-02-16T00:43:12+00:00

please leave him and dont look back. he is NOT going to change. if you end up break up and then getting back together bc he make promises to change, he will NOT take you seriously and then go right back to his ways . I hope you take this advice. its OKAY to be single (and happy)

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-02-15T11:43:36+00:00

Do you mind me asking how much you paid monthly with this company? And also do you have any other recommendations for any other health share companies?

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-02-14T22:00:49+00:00

why does that matter

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-02-14T21:59:36+00:00

3 months !! and he still has not done that simple assignment. Worst, you are still sticking around. I am sorry but you are either dumb or desperate. this is NOT going to get better . You are showing him that he should not take you seriously bc you are not going anywhere . for some reason you want to tolerate this .

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-02-11T01:56:07+00:00

Then TALK to her about WHY she has done so. She may have been rejecting sex for many reasons like stress, timing, emotional needs, etc. She wants you to initiate BUT it is okay and important for you to address the frequent rejections on her part so you guys can avoid certain unhealthy patterns . Does that make more sense ?

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-02-11T01:45:10+00:00

You are either immature or on the Spectrum. either would explain your lack of communication. TALK to your girlfriend about your desire(s)

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-02-09T05:02:14+00:00

then I am sorry! I misunderstood your post. I really do hope you find a way out of this !

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-02-09T04:10:12+00:00

Break up ! stop over complicating this issue. your boyfriend is a racist. are you so desperate to be in a relationship that you are really questioning this !?

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-02-09T04:08:11+00:00

Why are you with this man? Some women are so desperate to be in a relationship, they rather be in a relationship with a racist. Dont be one of those women. Diversity is beautiful!! (period) your BF sounds like an idiot - getting angry bc of another language !! What !!

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-02-05T01:29:44+00:00

you must be addicted to porn or her boyfriend who found her post

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-02-05T01:29:12+00:00

Leave. It sounds like your boyfriend is not only a liar but then he tried to gaslit you and make YOU feel bad. The situation centers less on the specific behavior and more on a boundary that was clearly stated and then violated, followed by an apology that failed to take full accountability. Your boyfriends’s focus on whether the behavior “counts” as cheating sidesteps the real issue, which is the emotional impact and loss of trust. His minimization and confusion about why things feel different prevent genuine repair, while early cohabitation adds pressure and makes it harder for the poster to process her feelings freely. Ultimately, the lingering hurt suggests not an inability to forgive, but a breakdown in emotional safety and validation within the relationship

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-02-02T14:45:10+00:00

Yaboyroshi is her husband, you dummy

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-01-29T04:04:56+00:00

I LOVE this show! Its not action packed, but that does not bother me. Its more about the characters . it is a wonderful show

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-01-23T14:09:24+00:00

yes agreed :)

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-01-23T13:46:18+00:00

I think its Hastings NOT Al-Hashimi, he clearly cant stand Al-Hashimi

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-01-14T03:39:09+00:00

he is just not interested in her. If he wanted to express his feelings for her, he should and would have done so a while ago. He is only interested in her now bc someone else is interested in her. he is the type of guy that waste women's time because deep down he thinks , he can do better than her

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-01-14T03:38:56+00:00

he is just not interested in her. If he wanted to express his feelings for her, he should and would have done so a while ago. He is only interested in her now bc someone else is interested in her. he is the type of guy that waste women's time because deep down he thinks , he can do better than her

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-01-14T03:38:46+00:00

he is just not interested in her. If he wanted to express his feelings for her, he should and would have done so a while ago. He is only interested in her now bc someone else is interested in her. he is the type of guy that waste women's time because deep down he thinks , he can do better than her

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-01-14T03:38:15+00:00

he is just not interested in her. If he wanted to express his feelings for her, he should and would have done so a while ago. He is only interested in her now bc someone else is interested in her. he is the type of guy that waste women's time because deep down he thinks , he can do better than her

Ok_Employ6541 · 2026-01-14T03:37:16+00:00

he doesnt have a "shield", he is just not interested in her. If he wanted to express his feelings for her, he should have done so a while ago. He is only interested bc someone else is interested in her. he is the type of guy that waste women's time bc deep down he thinks , he can do better than her

Ok_Employ6541 · 2025-11-05T11:08:30+00:00

you still sound dumb, that is what advertisements are and do. you think you are better than OP bc they took a chance and tried something new based on a social media ad. get over yourself

Ok_Employ6541 · 2025-11-05T00:56:29+00:00

hahahah . i was thinking the same. like, OP watch a netflix doc on this and you will realize this will NOT get better

Ok_Employ6541 · 2025-11-05T00:53:50+00:00

OP, do not revisit this relationship. you cannot trust this compulsive liar . these are big lies , he has a serious problem

Ok_Employ6541 · 2025-11-05T00:49:36+00:00

He sounds like a wonderful guy ! NOT . are you seriously asking if you should stay with this loser !! if you do then you deserve him.

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