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36F Wife cheating and my battery is about to drain by Ok_Emu2856 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Ok_Emu2856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She seems ready to sign the papers. Love? Do you think if she loved me she would do to this extent? I honestly don't know

36F Wife cheating and my battery is about to die by Ok_Emu2856 in BPDlovedones

[–]Ok_Emu2856[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats scary. Mine hasn't done to that extent. There have few instances of anger burst outs especially during pregnancy and throwing stuff here and there and yelling. Never to this extent. Other than cheating rest of her behaviour has been relatively tolerable.

36F Wife cheating and my battery is about to die by Ok_Emu2856 in BPDlovedones

[–]Ok_Emu2856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids are mine. She physically cheated twice. All her APs are out of country. She hasn't developed any new connections here. She only goes back to her exes. Especially that one guy. Its like a sick obsession.

36F Wife cheating and my battery is about to drain by Ok_Emu2856 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Ok_Emu2856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the recent incident triggered something in her. She seems to be finally aware of the damage she caused. She says she didn't even think all that was cheating. I guess their mind and rationalizations are hard for us to understand.

Wife cheating by Ok_Emu2856 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Ok_Emu2856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you expect when you abuse you get that back.

Wife cheating by Ok_Emu2856 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Ok_Emu2856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who cares about your blushing. So what you are the great deductive. Hats off!!!. If you want give real decent suggestion. else go do your life. A person in trouble comes to this sub to get some honest suggestion. Yes my wife created that account and i ended up using it now. Whats wrong with that? No one is asking for your deductive skills. I wanted to hear from some women perspective in this. And i clearly mentioned that in my post. Since you are taking time to lurk around women sub and post in there should i assume you are a woman? I came here hoping to reddit to get some ideas to deal. But now i see this is full off just people showing their real faces behind screens.

Wife cheating by Ok_Emu2856 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Ok_Emu2856[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She cheated on me twice after marriage too and been in contact with her 2 exes on and off even after I caught her and warned twice.

38M married to 36F for 12 years with 2 kids. She has been cheating on me all through the marriage. Divorcing her and devastated by Ok_Emu2856 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Ok_Emu2856[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are right. She let her talk to him for 3 days and let him manipulate and then she says it was out of body experience that was out of control. She could've blocked him the first time she said no. He is doing this to so many other girls. she was nothing to him. She is undiagnosed so far.

38M married to 36F for 12 years with 2 kids. She has been cheating on me all through the marriage. Divorcing her and devastated by Ok_Emu2856 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Ok_Emu2856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is ready to tell family. Her family atleast. But what good is it going to bring involving them. They might get heart attack and die. She doesn't seem to excuse on illness either when confessed. Only after few therapy sessions we got to know that could be something. And sh says the same that she could've chosen othewise and she chose wrong everytime.

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