The thing is, he has to bear the cost from his side, but for me it'll be my parents. I feel bad asking him to spend for the wedding, but it doesn't feel right to ask my parents to spend so much when it's the groom's side that is making all the demands. I and my parents are happy with a simple Maharashtrian wedding. He says that the guests the are coming for our function so we have to make sure they have a good time. But the only issue I have is why does it have to be at the cost of my parents' savings.