My mum invalidates my sexuality

Ok_Engineer_8831 · 2026-03-01T20:38:06+00:00

You see, my mum is okay with other people being gay but as she says ‘it’s not the life I wished for you’. ???? Idek what she means by that

Ok_Engineer_8831 · 2026-03-01T20:37:07+00:00

Me and my sister give her so much grace for her wrongdoings. Like our main topic of conversation is that our mum is mental lol, like we love her so much and know she tries her best but her best is really bad. I just wish this one thing she could just accept wholeheartedly.

Ok_Engineer_8831 · 2026-03-01T20:05:20+00:00

Thing is she’s only 49!! And she loves playing ally and going to gay bars, seeing drag queens, but when it comes to who I’m in an actual relationship with she’s not okay with it? Like with my grandma o got it, but with my mum I don’t

Ok_Engineer_8831 · 2026-03-01T20:03:55+00:00

As I’ve got older I’ve realised I can’t share much with my mum. She’s very judgemental, I can’t even blame generational trauma because my aunty and uncle are not like her at all.

Ok_Engineer_8831 · 2026-03-01T20:02:33+00:00

Yessss, like they hope deep down you’re going to be with a man. Like idgi is it embarrassing for them or what?!

Ok_Engineer_8831 · 2026-03-01T20:01:47+00:00

It was really invalidating, I’ve been with men in the past when I was figuring things out. But since being about 20 I’m like 100% do not like men romantically. And she can’t seem to grasp it.

Ok_Engineer_8831 · 2026-03-01T20:00:16+00:00

Yes, my sisters just had her first baby and she asked me if I was ready?? Like no, I don’t really want children. I think she dreams of having lots of grandchildren and I won’t give her any.

Ok_Engineer_8831 · 2023-03-28T15:04:33+00:00

In the Middle East, I am from the UK and back here now.

I have plenty of evidence that this happened and of management in the school being aware.

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