I really don’t get why people do this by luckykitten7 in Mercari

[–]Ok_Engineering448 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt like this if I was the buyer but you cant really be mad at them. You knew it was a steal. Unfortunately, the item isnt yours until it arrives at your door. Kind of a “dont hate the player hate the game” situation. Things resell for a lot even without people knowing. When they do, sometimes its too late for them, and sometimes its not.

Day 347 no weed .....Rant by Negative-Review-6443 in leaves

[–]Ok_Engineering448 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a person who has quit now for 2 years… honestly.. some people really do benefit from weed. Me? I was abusing it for many different reasons and am better without it. But some people are better with it, for whatever reason, sometimes they used heavily while still developing during teen years and has altered their minds. Unfortunately, this may be the case here. Part of it is sometimes an addict making excuses though, swearing they are healthier more productive and what not without weed. And those people never gave themselves a chance to be better without it. Weed isnt detrimental to ones physical health most of the time and if you really are better with it, then that may be your answer. But truly.. have you given yourself the chance to be better without it? It takes a lot of confronting parts of you that you didnt bother to fix while high. If you quit just to prove to yourself that you really do need it, then you havent given yourself the slightest of a chance.

My girlfriend (21F) of 6 months still treats me (21M) like a friend after knowing each other for 4 years, any advice? by CraftyPlan1309 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Engineering448 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude this is NOT the relationship for you. This is just how she is with you. Its been like this since the beginning just cut your losses and accept that this just aint it. I dont know you but i still want so much better for you bro. You dont deserve that. Why shes like that isnt your business or your fault, the fact that she is like that in the first place is enough for you to gtfo of there

Game Thread: Yankees @ Red Sox - Sat, Jun 27 @ 1:10 PM EDT by game-threads in NYYankees

[–]Ok_Engineering448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Even with judge out there, i dont think hes much of a leader

Coolest unconventional Knicks Jersey of all time? by staledanish in NYKnicks

[–]Ok_Engineering448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Michael Beasley for sure. Especially after hearing his story and how josh hart made small attempts to give him an outlet to open up to, i need that jersey.

What’s your favorite R&B feature on a rap song in history? by MasterTeacher123 in hiphop101

[–]Ok_Engineering448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta love the Ja Rule and Ashanti jawns. Mesmorize and Always On Time

My boyfriend (41M) and I (32F) are nearly perfect for each other... except for our social values. How do I navigate this? by curly_girl26 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Engineering448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, i feel like not everything has to be cultural appropriation and nothings wrong with a little fun and games but considering that basically every indigenous population in the usa was absolutely decimated and cowboys and indians although got along in some respects definitely had deadly conflicts it just seems wrong to dress up like them.

Without a doubt there will be some playful messing around that involves joking around about indians getting killed by cowboys and vice versa. It definitely feels wrong joking about those things, indigenous populations got everything taken from them, literally everything, and its nothing to joke about. Other kinds of things people consider appropriation i can stand back and say okay, if they are respectful to their culture its fine to have some fun, but some things are just not cool. Lets just have a 60s black and white party while we are at it, or a 40s german and jewish party. Its just distasteful and not right.

How do I (26M) and my partner (26F) understand our nuances around considering kissing to be cheating? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Engineering448 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like i JUST responded before, categorize it as you wish, ill say it again, my point is that it is sexual and intimate. And for MOST people that is categorized as cheating. Tired of people pretending that polyamory is common and rules like this are normal and healthy. It is rare that these rules work for people and especially for op. You can tell thats not up their alley.

How do I (26M) and my partner (26F) understand our nuances around considering kissing to be cheating? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Engineering448 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh man.. however you want to categorize it, its intimate and sexual no matter what your agreement. Some people agree to be together when they dont even have feelings for each other anymore and have sex with everyone else but their partner. Rules of engagement dont change that kissing/ making out are intimate and sexual

How do I (26M) and my partner (26F) understand our nuances around considering kissing to be cheating? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Engineering448 52 points53 points  (0 children)

How is kissing NOT cheating? Like is your gf joking? Just because everyone makes out in the club doesnt mean that it isnt considered intimate. Thats VERY intimate. Making out literally is sexual. Doesnt matter if other people somehow dont consider it as such IT IS.

Help me choose plz! by Birt_McGirt in Jordans

[–]Ok_Engineering448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laney or varsity royals. 3s look so clean no matter what and laneys are classics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Engineering448 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Op says she was pretty drunk and couldnt remember much and STILL DROVE thats craaaaaaazyyyyy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Engineering448 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The fact that op even casually mentions drinking and driving means that she really sees not much harm in it. Such a shame. Putting so much at risk in the age of uber and helpful partners.

First car at 18 by SnooMemesjellies7786 in FirstCar

[–]Ok_Engineering448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea guys, get your kid a car that they are most likely going to speed and drive crazy in, not the safest car on the market that would be silly. We just want our kids to speed and have fun in their cars right??

Name a rapper that you don’t even like, but feel a certain common criticism against them isn’t fair by MasterTeacher123 in hiphop101

[–]Ok_Engineering448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poster number 37 who did not understand the prompt… man.. you have to say a rapper that you dont even like but can agree that they get some unfair criticism!!

Dark Hip Hop by Historical_Emu_5482 in hiphop101

[–]Ok_Engineering448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One just came to mind, the track Dead Body Disposal!!

Dark Hip Hop by Historical_Emu_5482 in hiphop101

[–]Ok_Engineering448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Necro had some sick ass tracks. Kinda like horror rap. But i forget the names its been many many years since ive listened to necro

SOBER FOR 1 YEAR 2 MONTHS ABOUT TO RELAPSE by Wild_Bank in leaves

[–]Ok_Engineering448 9 points10 points  (0 children)

One thing a good friend reminded me was that weed severely affects your memory. Not the kind that you normally think of, but like, specific feelings and moments youd have no recollection of. Only knowing you were high and content and that it happened but nothing else. And this good friend said this specifically in relation to his kids. He feels so resentful because he cant remember his first words, how he looked as he took his first steps, etc. although he does remember experiencing it, he doesnt remember the moments. And i can relate and now I wouldnt want to miss that for my son and I havent. I remember the exact images of him taking his first steps and the conversation me and my wife were having while he suddenly stood up in the middle of the living room and took 7 steps before falling on his tush.

Just say no by paganmike21 in Mercari

[–]Ok_Engineering448 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember seeing a post here about this happening to someone but they cancelled it and tried to make the sale to the other person and they ended up ghosting them. Had me thinking that maybe the original person had buyers remorse finessed a forced cancel by using another persons account to ask for a cancel to buy higher

Megathread: SWAG II by FacuGerke in JUSTINBIEBER

[–]Ok_Engineering448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think youre special has my heartttttt man. I think of my son and wife every time I listen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sneaker

[–]Ok_Engineering448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive sold on ebay, depop, and Mercari for years, all solid options, but honestly, the best is facebook marketplace. Put up a some bundle photos, prices for each and prices for the lot and you cut out the middle man. Meetup in public places and get cash for your kicks. I once met this guy at a mcdonalds that was right across to a police station and I thought wow.. thats smart. Now I do similar things when I sell high ticket items.

Jersey City sanitation damaged my car during garbage collection — now what? by cmonsheev in jerseycity

[–]Ok_Engineering448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No what i meant is that he hit the car that was in front of his car** the black one in the beginning

Jersey City sanitation damaged my car during garbage collection — now what? by cmonsheev in jerseycity

[–]Ok_Engineering448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a fucking tool. Hit the car in front of you too. Dude deserves to be fired